IT WAS EARLY IN THE MORNING. Time was a few minutes past 6:00 AM. I was returning from a night vigil we had in a brother’s house. As I turned into the main road, I saw a man wheeling his bicycle along as he walked; and beside him was a woman I suspected to be his wife. I have no idea what might have transpired between them earlier but that morning, she gave him the dressing down of his life. The man was silent as she rained abuses on him. “Akpinō Ab’Ōla hidōdō, Ab’Ōla gbē!. Akpinō Ab’Ōla hidōdō, Ab’Ōla káá!”, she railed in Igala language. It means: “You frozen and dry-bodied Eunuch. You frozen Eunuch with a body gone sour!” It’s been decades since she spoke those acidic words, but I haven’t forgotten them
because they’re some of the worse vituperation any woman could assault a man with in public. She probably found him unable to meet her sexual needs in marriage but did she ever pause to know if the reasons for her lack of satisfaction were from her?

Many wives who are not sexually fulfilled in marriage are quick to conclude that it’s because their husbands are not good in bed. This, however, isn’t true most of the time.

Our first anchor scripture tells us that God created Man in two genders: Male and Female. In other words, they are two distinctly different genders. Each of them has their God-given nature and their respective pathway to sexual fulfillment. When they operate in their individual nature during sexual intimacy, each receives full satisfaction. As a woman and wife you need to know this: your sexual satisfaction is not at the mercy of your husband’s ability to deliver or otherwise. Similarly, his ability to gain satisfaction during intimate times with you doesn’t depend on you. You simply need to know some basic truths on how to manage yourself during lovemaking and you’ll enjoy constant harvests of orgasms

(1) KNOW THAT SEXUAL INTIMACY IS AN ACT. IT’S SOMETHING YOU DO.
In 1 Corinthians 7: 3 God tells you to RENDER sexual services to your husband. So, always come into the marriage bed with the mindset of ministering sexual pleasure to your husband instead of coming to be “satisfied.” Be fully active and watch what will happen: your activeness will arouse your husband tremendously because men find women who are active in bed sexy. As your activeness arouses him, his “body” will become rock solid and very strong; and he’ll in turn make love to you better. He’ll however need to be restrained to able to stay for long. This is easy as uses HIS MIND.

(2) DRINK YOUR HUSBAND.
In Proverbs 5: 15, God’s Word tells spouses to “DRINK WATERS FROM YOUR CISTERN…”. Dear wife, please, listen. When you’re with your husband in bed you’re to drink from him and he’s also there to drink from you. This is because, you are each other’s CISTERN. Don’t lie down idle and later complain that he didn’t satisfy you. Who stopped you from drinking? If you didn’t drink, what makes you think that you will be satisfied? So whose fault is it then? It’s your fault. Some of you wives were told by your ignorant friends that “it’s not ladylike to be active during intimacy.” Well, you were fed a lie and it’s time to throw out all such rubbish. Now, for you to understand this particular point, it’s good we look at how we all drink water. In drinking water, you hold the cup containing water to your lips, right? You hold the cup with your own hands and you’re not thinking of shame or shyness while doing so. You hold the cup boldly. Similarly hold your husband with your own two hands boldly and shamelessly pull him close to yourself, just like you put the cup containing water to your lips. And when you’ve placed the cup close to your lips, you open your mouth and pour the water slowly into your mouth, right? And what’s next? You gulp down the water, swallowing every drop gently. You don’t wait for someone to force the water down your throat. Similarly, drink your husband while he’s drinking you . If he’s drinking you and you don’t drink him, you’re in error. And this is the mistake of many wives. Stop waiting for your husband to satisfy you. Drink him and you’ll be satisfied. Because some people are dull of hearing let me put it more plainly. When your husband is fucking you, fuck him also and you’ll reap sexual satisfaction.

(3) BE TOTALLY FREE WITH YOUR BODY AND ALLOW YOUR NATURE TO WORK FREELY.
When creating you, God built into you the power of self-control. A good example is when you’re being injected in the hospital. Knowing that you’re going to encounter the sharp pain from the needle, you brace yourself. And as the nurse gently drives the needle into your flesh you clench your fist or teeth or role your eyes all in the effort to minimize your feeling of the pain. And it works! This is a good way to handle pain.
When it comes to sex, you must not use self control at all! Just go out of control! What I mean is: release yourself to the feelings that come into your body. These feelings were not designed by your husband. No. They were programmed into your body by GOD. Don’t subdue them. As you allow them, they’ll keep growing, increasing and intensifying until you experience the famed Orgasm. Orgasms are no mystery. They’re as ordinary and natural as laughing and yawning. You can subdue laughter; so also can you subdue yawning. You can also subdue the orgasmic process by refusing to be free during sex because you believe that “a good lady should not feel so free with a man in bed or else the man will laugh at her later”. But your husband is not just “a man”, he’s your God-given Covenant Husband.
So during sex, feel absolutely free with him. Let your body be free to express it’s nature. As the pleasure of sex increases, go with it. Moan, thrust vigorously, kiss and do all that your nature as a female dictates and you’ll EASILY experience orgasms. Orgasms are natural. Your body is already programmed to experience them.They’re yours any time. Get into bed with your husband and pluck them.

💕❤️ TODAY’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
Today is Monday.
This night is unique.
The concept of sexual pleasure is not human rather it’s divine. God Himself wants spouses to CONSTANTLY enjoy the thrills of sexual pleasure.
One of the things that God placed in marriage for this purpose is the Clitoris. The one and only purpose and function of the Clitoris is to give couples pleasure. God placed it in the body of the wife but it’s not to be stimulated by her, but by the husband.
Tonight, you’re going to both sit closely together to discuss the Clitoris.

❤️💕🌴 MARRIAGE REVOLUTION CONTINUES! WIVES, ORGASMS ARE NO MYSTERIES. YOU CAN HAVE THEM WITH YOUR HUSBAND ANYTIME!💕💞❤️💕💞🤎💕💞💚💕💞🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴