IT DOES NOT MATTER how well endowed you are as a woman. You may be the married lass with the big ass; the beautiful wife with the most shapely and luscious breasts, or the fair lady with the silky skin; yet IF YOU DON’T HAVE THE RIGHT MENTAL ATTITUDE towards sex, much will elude you in that aspect of marriage.

As a wife, your enjoyment of intimacy with your beloved husband is tied to the extent to which you are mentally, spiritually and emotionally free with him on the marriage bed. If you’re shy, ashamed, timid or insecure, you’re not likely to get the most out of your sexual fellowship with your mate because a part of you is still being held back by your wrong mindset.

Take a close look at our anchor scripture above that’s presented in two versions for easy comprehension and learn. Can you see that even in our fellowship and communion with God as His redeemed children, we are commanded to *COME BOLDLY* BEFORE THE THRONE OF GRACE? Can you see that God does not want us to come before Him with fearfulness and timidity?(Hebrews 4:16). If God needs us to appear BOLDLY when coming to fellowship with Him, isn’t it a strong hint that BOLDNESS is a powerful essence of fellowship? Doesn’t it tell you that there’s something in BOLDNESS that gives good quality to fellowship? There certainly is. We need to do everything we do with boldness. Whatever you do timidly or being ashamed, will MOST CERTAINLY not be at it’s best. You’ll blunder at it. And that includes sexual intimacy with your husband. And it’s only a matter of time and your husband will notice that there’s a touch of coldness in your sexual delivery in bed. This is one of the reasons men with well endowed wives go out to less built women, even though they know that it’s wrong.

Before we go further, it’s important we address this other point. Some wives have a list of “laws” on “How To Be LADY-LIKE.” They say: “It’s not ‘Lady-like’ to be active in bed with your husband.” “It’s not Lady-like for him to know that you’re enjoying the act.” “It’s not Lady-like to release yourself completely to your husband.” “It’s not Lady-like to easily consent to have sex with him. Refuse for some time and let him plead and plead and plead before you consent; otherwise he’ll think that you’re a cheap woman.” “It’s not Lady-like to…..” The list is seemingly endless. Unfortunately, many naive and undiscerning wives have swallowed these doctrines of devils hook, line and sinker and practice them in their relationship with their husbands. The result? Oh, their marriage bedroom is now tattered and their husband goes out freely to other women in frustration. And how about the “Expensive Wife” who always felt too beautiful to be touched once every week? Well, she’s now running from one prayer house to another and asking for Intercessions and Supplications so her husband’s heart would be turned back to her!

Beloved, we are in the last days and one of the things you must watch against is the doctrine of devils and the dragnets of seducing spirits that have been spread far and wide to capture spouses and their marriages. Beware, lest you fall victim. Run away from any one that’s teaching you how to make yourself unavailable to your husband sexually. Flee from anyone who’s telling you to make yourself an “Expensive Wife”, so your husband would respect you more.
That person is not a friend but an agent of darkness sent to teach you how to use your own hands to destroy your marriage and family.

God instituted Sex in marriage. He created both the Penis and the Vagina and none of them is evil or sinful. More importantly, they’re not meant to be used rarely in marriage. No. They’re to be used to the fullest extent within the holy confines of marriage.

Allow your husband access to every part of your body that he’s crazy about(except your anus). If he’s like a Bishop I know that loves armpit hairs in women, let him see, sniff and kiss your armpits all he wants! If he’s idiosyncratic about your bum bum, please allow him enjoy them. And of course, you are also free to enjoy him the way you dream and desire. Feel free to tell him what you want.

Finally,
(1) ALWAYS COME INTO BED WITH *BOLDNESS*. Shyness and feeling ashamed are now abomination in your marriage bedroom.
(2) BE CONSCIOUS OF THE FACT THAT GOD HASN’T GIVEN YOU THE SPIRIT OF FEAR BUT THE SPIRIT OF POWER, LOVE AND SOUND MIND. That’s, if you are already born again. But if you are not yet, ask Jesus Christ to come into your life and make you born again and He will.
(3) ALWAYS MAKE LOVE WITH THE MINDSET OF PUTTING IN YOUR BEST AND MAKING THE MOST OF IT, BECAUSE YOU NEVER CAN TELL WHEN DEATH WILL END IT ALL.

💕❤️ TODAY’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
Tonight, you’re still going to discuss the CLITORIS. God created it for your mutual pleasure as a couple. He placed it in the body of the wife but it’s to be simulated by only the husband and not the wife. Isn’t it such a beautiful arrangement by God?
Have a heart to heart talk about the Clitoris again tonight.

❤️💕🌴 MARRIAGE REVOLUTION CONTINUES! BID GOODBYE TO PASSIVITY AND SHAME IN THE BEDROOM. BRING BOLDNESS TO THE FOREFRONT OF YOUR BEDROOM LIFE!!💕💞❤️💕💞💚💕💞🤎🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴