FROM OUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE ABOVE , we can find answers to the dissatisfaction of housewives in the marriage bedroom.
(1) HUSBAND, YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT YOUR WIFE IS *DIFFERENT* . Genesis 1:27 tells us that God created the couple as MALE and FEMALE. So, the two are different. Women are different from men in sexual response.
Husband, just seeing only 35% of your wife’s nakedness gets you quickly turned on and you’re immediately ready for “ACTION” but do you know what? Your wife has not even started to feel aroused! But when you mount pressure on her to “Come and let’s start now. Don’t waste my time!” and she agrees just to please you, she gets nothing out of it. Just imagine Sex being this way for five years. Your pressure and insistence followed by her aquiescanse and surrender. Is this what God intended? Certainly not. This is sexual bullying and not sexual intimacy. Sexual Intimacy is something you both share in love and joy; and every one is equally benefitted.
(2) God deliberately created your wife to be slower than you in getting aroused. She’s not aroused by sight but by your LOVING AND UNHURRIED sensual touches and tender loving words. This means that, even though you have been quickly aroused, you must forget about your arousal and give your wife full attention by touching, caressing, fondling and speaking loving words to her tenderly to *PREPARE HER* *ADEQUATELY* for sexual intimacy. You should not attempt to enter her body until you’ve spent good enough time in deeply preparing her. And your entrance should be when she indicates by words or body language. To do otherwise is gatecrashing. Don’t be a gatecrasher husband.
πTake Home Points: *PREPARE HER DEEPLY, BEFORE YOU ATTEMPT ENTRY.*
π *ENTER WHEN SHE SAYS OR INDICATES SO. NEVER GATECRASH.*
πβ€οΈ TODAY’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
Tonight, sit down together and discuss today’s devotional piece. You might want to try it out tonight if you’re not fasting.
β€οΈππ MARRIAGE REVOLUTION CONTINUES!
HUSBAND, LET YOUR INTIMATE TIMES BE LARGELY FOCUSSED ON ACHIEVING MADAM’S SATISFACTION. HER FULFILLMENT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPIER.πππππππππππππππππππππππ