FOR MOST MARRIED COUPLES, lovemaking is all about the genitals coming together but this is not what it should be. Sexual Intimacy in marriage is not just about your genitals, it’s about your entire BODIES because you’re ONE FLESH. There must be the stimulation of every part of each other’s body, particularly those parts that excite your mate sexually. Those parts are referred to as the Erogenous Zones of the body; and of course they differ in individuals. So it’s important that you discover the Erogenous Zones of your Spouse.
God created the bodies of husbands such that it doesn’t require much stimulation to be aroused but the opposite is the case with the wife. God created her to be properly stimulated by her husband before she would be fully ready for intromission or penetration.
Our anchor scripture, presented in three different translations, shows that sexual intercourse is more than the fusion of the genitals. Your hands have a lot of roles to play. This is particularly so for the husband.
A look at the body of the wife easily tells you that God deliberately planned for her husband to use his hands very much in the job of giving her pleasure. Look where the breasts are located. They are “far away” from the vagina and the clitoris. Note that the Clitoris is not even inside the vagina but outside it! The lips of the vagina also need tender and feathery caressing. So there’s a demand for the husband to intelligently coordinate his work of arousing her. It calls for the use of his hands in delicately fondling and stimulating her breasts, nipples, the lips of the vagina and the CLITORIS.
Now, can you see that giving your wife attention in all these areas requires time? Is it her making? No! Whose making is it then? God of course and it’s no mistake. This is how God wants her to be and it gives Him joy to see you renounce selfishness and spend your time in caressing your wife at length until she’s boiling with arousal and “fainting with love” and tells you to penetrate her beautiful body. All this take time and patience which self-centered husbands are not willing to invest.
Take Home Points:
🍇 SEXUAL INTIMACY ISN’T ONLY ABOUT THE GENITALS. IT INVOLVES THE WHOLE BODY.
🍇 HUSBAND, USE YOUR HANDS TO STIMULATE, CARESS, FONDLE, THE EROGENOUS AREAS OF YOUR WIFE’S BODY UNTIL SHE’S “BOILING” WITH AROUSAL AND “FAINTING WITH LOVE.”
💕❤️ TODAY’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
Tonight, husband use your hands tenderly and gently to stimulate your wife until she’s raining in the Rainforest! JUST YOUR HANDS. Do everything tenderly such that she does not get bruised. If your hands are hard, calloused or rough, please rub some cream on them. And, remember to trim your finger nails before you start. Wishing you a very high score in your assignment.
❤️💕🍇 MARRIAGE REVOLUTION CONTINUES!!!
HUSBANDS, ADAPT TO THE NATURE OF YOUR WIFE’S BODY. INVEST TIME AND DELICATE AFFECTION TO SEE THAT SHE’S ALWAYS SATISFIED. IT’S TO YOUR MUTUAL ADVANTAGE.
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