LOVEBIRDS' DEVOTIONAL

Enriching Matrimonies

ADDRESSING SEXUAL DISSATISFACTION AMONG HOUSEWIVES (PT 6)

Scripture:
‘Let no one seek his own good, but the good of his neighbor. Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others.’
(1 Corinthians 10:24; Philippians 2:4)

ONE OF THE CAUSES OF SEXUAL DISSATISFACTION AMONG HOUSEWIVES is the self centeredness of most husbands. Such husbands may find this hard-hitting but it’s true. And in a lot cases, these fine gentlemen don’t even know that they are selfish!

Our two anchor scriptures both speak about putting the interest of others above yours. This means that, during sexual intimacy in marriage, the husband’s focus should be on seeing to it that his wife is satisfied sexually. In other words, he should put her interest first and above his! He should do all she needs him to do for her to reach orgasm during sexual intercourse. What are the things he should do for her? Here:

1. PREPARE HER DEEPLY(PHD) FOR SEXUAL INTIMACY. Going by her nature, a wife needs her husband’s romantic touches, caresses, kisses, fondling, licking, sucking; affectionate whispers, tender-loving words, etc to be turned on and AROUSED DEEPLY until she’s “boiling” with passion and EAGER FOR PENETRATION.

2. SHE NEEDS HIM TO PROVIDE HER A TURGID AND ERECT PENIS. When the husband’s erection stands for only a few minutes and goes down just when he’s hurrying to get into his wife, it could be discouraging to both of them. A lot of times, the problem is either medical or psychological. It could be easily traced to exhaustion, fear, nervousness, lack of self-confidence, etc. Sir, just relax. COMPLETELY relax in your mind! Remember that Sex is not an academic examination. You’re not required to submit the records of your performances any where. So, relax!!! Know this about erections: if they go, they’ll return. So just keep romancing your wife till it’s back. And if you’re thoroughly exhausted, please take a break and get full rest. You can always come together later. A word for Madam: when there’s an “Erection Outage”, don’t nag and blame your husband. Instead, stand with him emotionally and encourage him until it’s back.

3. HUSBAND, USE YOUR MENTAL POWER TO CONTROL YOUR EJACULATION. One of the things housewives complain of is SHORT DURATION OF INTERCOURSE. Husband, your MIND is the machine for controlling your ejaculation. Once you know how to use it, you can practically make love to your wife for OVER HOUR non-stop! Just imagine how many waves of Orgasms your wife will experience in that long space of time!

TAKE HOME POINTS:
🍇 DURING SEXUAL INTIMACY, HUSBAND, FOCUS ON HELPING YOUR WIFE EXPERIENCE ORGASMS.
🍇USE YOUR MIND TO PROLONG SEXUAL INTIMACY.
🍇 SHOULD YOU EXPERIENCE “ERECTION POWER OUTAGE”, DON’T BE ALARMED. RELAX, BECAUSE IT WILL BE BACK. IF IT’S CAUSED BY EXHAUSTION, THEN REST ADEQUATELY AND RESUME INTIMACY LATER.

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