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ADDRESSING SEXUAL DISSATISFACTION AMONG HOUSEWIVES (PT 8)

Scripture:
‘Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.’
(Proverbs 5:15)

PRECIOUS MARRIED DAUGHTERS OF GOD, it’s needful that you cast off some of the wrong beliefs you’ve had for years about Sex. These wrong beliefs are behind the inability of some of you to freely enjoy Sex with your husbands. Here are some of them:

(1) THE NOTION THAT SEX IS JUST ANOTHER VERSION OF FORNICATION; ONLY THAT IT’S IN MARRIAGE. This is a deadly belief that creates a negative mindset that results in a hostile attitude towards Sex in the marriage bedroom. Dearly Beloved, God created Sex and HIS PURPOSE IS THAT IT WOULD GIVE HIM PLEASURE (Revelation 4:11) while it will also be enjoyed by the married couples. The fact that Sinners are bastardizing it in the world doesn’t change the fact that it’s an excellent blessing given by God. Hear the Scripture:

“FOR OF HIM, AND THROUGH HIM, AND TO HIM, ARE ALL THINGS: to whom be glory for ever. Amen.” (Romans 11:36)
“FOR BY HIM WERE ALL THINGS CREATED, that are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible and invisible, whether they be thrones, or dominions, or principalities, or powers: ALL THINGS WERE CREATED BY HIM, AND FOR HIM”(Colossians 1:16)
The two scriptures immediately above make it abundantly clear that God created Sex BY HIMSELF AND FOR HIMSELF. Which means that He doesn’t endure the sight of it, instead HE LOVES IT! But that’s of course when it’s performed by a husband and wife. Revelation 4:11 is very clear: Sexual Intimacy by married couples gives God pleasure:

“Thou art worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honour and power: for thou hast created all things, and FOR THY PLEASURE THEY ARE AND WERE CREATED.” (Revelation 4:11) The sight of birds flying gives Him pleasure. The sight of the Rose flower gives Him pleasure. The sight of a husband and wife having Sex also gives Him pleasure. This means that when a married couple is making love, God doesn’t look away. No! He looks at them closely with keen interest and enjoys the sight, the sounds and the joy of the couple. Nothing in the entire act embarrasses Him. Why? Because He’s the Originator of sexual intimacy in marriage.
Beloved, if God delights in married couples making love, why should you whom He created hate or despise it? If He’s not embarrassed to see the act, why should you be ashamed to have lights on when making love so that you can both see each other?

Sex with your husband is as pure in the sight of God as Evangelism, Prayer, Preaching, and every other spiritual ministry in Christ! You had better wake up and begin enjoying what you have.

(2) PASSIVITY AND INACTIVITY DURING SEXUAL INTIMACY WITH YOUR HUSBAND.
This is one of the reasons many wives don’t experience orgasm during sexual intimacy with their husbands.

Our anchor scriptures will guide us at this point.
In it, Sex is referred to as WATERS. So Sex is the Water of married couples. Each time you’re in bed with your darling husband for Sex, you’re both there to DRINK EACH OTHER. He can’t drink for you neither can you for him. How do you drink natural water? It involves actions. Similarly, drinking Sex from the body of your husband involves actions. You must be active just as he is. Use your vagina to grasp his penis, pull it and squeeze it as it’s inside your vagina. All these actions contribute to the development of the orgasmic process. Remember that your Clitoris is outside your vagina and can make direct contact with the hairy groin of your husband. That’s why you must thrust and thrust and thrust, making love actively to your husband. The repeated contacts of your Clitoris with his groin, coupled with your grabbing, grasping and squeezing his penis with your vagina: all these activities will trigger waves of glorious Orgasms in your body that will lead to your satisfaction. So, the point here is that you must be active during Sex. Don’t lie down idle. No!

💕❤️ TONIGHT’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
Tonight you’re going to do ECSS again. Hope you haven’t forgotten it so soon.
Husband remember to use “oiled or anointed” fingers. Do it the way Madam tells you to. Obey any objections she raises. Wishing you both high scores in your assignment.
For those who have forgotten, ECSS stands for ELABORATE CLITORAL STIMULATION SESSION.

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