IN YESTERDAY’S DEVOTIONAL PIECE, we saw that the loss of erection power could be as a result of diabolical or satanic interference. We also saw that, when that is the case, PRAYER TO GOD could resolve the matter leading to a divine installation of a new “Erection Power Grid”! This is because, with God nothing is impossible and all things are possible to him that believes (Matthew 19: 26; Mark 9:23).
So, if you’re challenged with erectile dysfunction, there’s no need to panic. There is more than enough help in God for you. Hear ye the Word of the Lord:
“BEHOLD, I AM THE LORD, THE GOD OF ALL FLESH: IS THERE ANY THING TOO HARD FOR ME?” (Jeremiah 32:27) So there’s more than enough help for you in God.
Today, we are considering the fact that most of the time, the loss of erection is not as a result of satanic attack but could be due to some other factors. Happily, all these factors could be effectively corrected by you or with the help of others. What are these factors? Below are some of them:
1) STRESS AND ANXIETY
2) FEAR OF FAILURE
3)PARTNER RIDICULE
4) EXHAUSTION, FATIGUE, TIREDNESS.
5) SICKNESS SUCH AS DIABETES
6) NERVOUSNESS
7) PRESSURE FOR PERFORMANCE
8) MONOTONY, SAMENESS AND DISINTEREST
Since some of these challenges have similar solutions, we are going to group them where necessary and present the solutions to them.
A) STRESS AND ANXIETY. This is a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or demanding circumstances. The FIRST solution is NOT to allow yourself to be overwhelmed or controlled by your circumstances. Secondly, place your troubles in the hands of God. The Bible says: “CASTING YOUR. CARES UPON HIM FOR HE CARES FOR YOU”(1 Peter 5:7)
“CAST YOUR BURDENS UPON THE LORD AND HE WILL SUSTAIN YOU”(Psalm 55:22)
“BE CAREFUL FOR NOTHING; BUT IN EVERY THING BY PRAYER AND SUPPLICATION WITH THANKSGIVING LET YOUR REQUESTS BE MADE KNOWN UNTO GOD.
AND THE PEACE OF GOD, WHICH PASSETH ALL UNDERSTANDING, SHALL KEEP YOUR HEARTS AND MINDS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS.”(Philippians 4:6-7)
When you obey these Scriptures, Stress and Anxiety will be dissipated and you’ll find yourself restful in your mind. The mind is the real engine of your sexual life. So, stability and rest of mind help to restore your erection.
As a rule, always keep your troubles far from your bedroom life. They’ll ultimately get solved after all; so don’t let them interrupt the joy of your bedroom life.
B) EXHAUSTION, FATIGUE AND TIREDNESS. These three things are the same and they negatively affect erection. Thankfully, the solution to them is simple and within your easy reach. The solution is: ALWAYS AVOID OVERWORKING YOURSELF. Don’t pride yourself as a workaholic. Enough of trying to do the work of one week in one day. You may assume that you’re the pillar of your office but if you drop dead you’ll be quickly and easily replaced. Always remember that while you’re working in the office, there’s your Bedroom Office Work waiting for you and your body requires vital stamina for full and sustained erection that will last and satisfy your wife.
C) FEAR OF FAILURE, NERVOUSNESS, PRESSURE FOR PERFORMANCE: The answer to these is also simple. It’s: RELAX! Why? Because sexual intimacy is never an Examination that you’re going to be scored on how well or otherwise you performed. It’s not a Project that you’ll be required to defend. No Auditors are coming to check your Bedroom Records Books because you have none! Never lose sight of what the Bible says that sexual intimacy is. IT’S DRINKING OF WATER!
“DRINK WATERS out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.” (Proverbs 5:15)
We all know how ordinary, simple and uncomplicated it is to drink Water. That’s exactly how simple sexual intimacy is. So, when you come into the Marriage Bed with your Spouse who is the Bone of your Bones and the Flesh of your Flesh, it’s a time to relax and enjoy each other. Drink the Water of marital pleasure from your spouse’s body as leisurely and as restfully as you drink water from your cup.
D) PARTNER RIDICULE: Dear Wives, please listen. When your husband experiences erectile challenges, know that it’s for him an embarrassing moment. You are therefore to serve as A HELPER to him at such a time. You must not blame or laugh at him.
Furthermore, don’t constitute yourself into an unauthorized “International Sexual Performance Examination Council” (ISPEC) to inspect, evaluate, assess and certify his sexual abilities.
As a wife, you’re in marriage to help build up and boost your husband’s sexual self confidence.
Keep his erectile challenges secret. Encourage him and PRAY FOR HIM until the desired change comes.
The tongue of a woman can electrify or electrocute a man’s sexual confidence. Strange Women can be commended in this area. They build up the confidence of their Clients. They use FLATTERY to achieve this. Hear the Scripture:
“To keep thee from the evil woman, FROM THE FLATTERY OF THE TONGUE OF A STRANGE WOMAN.”(Proverbs 6:24) Strange Women flatter the men who patronize them about their sexual performances. They moan as if they’ve never met a more handsome and romantic man. Meanwhile, this is the same man whose wife henpecks at home.
Mind what you say about your husband’s bedroom performances.
Does it mean when he’s wrong, he shouldn’t be told the truth? No. But do your correcting with respect, love, affection and empathy; recognizing the fact that he’s distinctly different from all other men and there’s never the need to compare him with anybody.
E) MONOTONY AND SAMENESS. Have you not heard that “Monotony KILLS Interest”? That saying is true in the marriage bedroom. Sameness can lead to lameness of erection. Again, the solution is simple: make changes in your pattern, place, positions and time of sexual intercourse from time to time. It brings on new excitement and anticipations.
F) SICKNESSES SUCH AS DIABETES. It’s no secret that Diabetes causes the decline of sexual powers. In this area, you’ll need to consult your Doctor for proper medical advice. However, I’m led by the Spirit to tell those who are challenged by diabetes to know that their FAITH can give them SOLID VICTORY over it such that their sexual life is intact and fully functional. “For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world: and this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith.”(1 John 5:4)
🍷🍗 TAKE-HOME LESSON: THE CAUSES OF ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION ARE EASY TO CORRECT. CORRECT THEM USING THE SOLUTIONS PROFERRED IN TODAY’S AND YESTERDAY’S DEVOTIONAL.
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Reread today’s devotional piece and discuss it.
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