HAS IT EVER OCCURRED TO YOU THAT the two Spouses in the Song of Solomon never allowed themselves to at any point be distracted? You might reread our anchor scriptures to confirm this.
They’re 100 % focused on their love affair. In our anchor scripture passage, the man noted the approaching new season. But what does he think they should do with it? Make more money? No. He thinks instead that it’s an opportunity for them to travel out and grow their love relationship!
Obviously they had relatives, neighbours, colleagues and business associates and of course, spiritual friends who worshipped in the same sanctuary with them. And sure enough their businesses or enterprises were also there. Yet, do you see how they kept all those other relationships and their businesses from infringing on their love life? Do you see how they successfully kept everyone and everything else neatly OUTSIDE the confines of their relationship?
Spouses, please listen. Marriage is strictly a relationship of TWO LOVERS. It must at no stage permit the presence, directly or indirectly of a third person. The shadow or influence of a third person is not permitted. This is why God commanded right from the Beginning in Eden that Man must leave his Father and Mother and CLEAVE TO HIS WIFE. This is because all other persons must be excluded from their union. The union must be completely on it’s own so that the Spouses would develop their own unique brand of romance, passion and love!
But sadly, many couples do not know this.
Of course, your marriage produces the children who form your family; and it’s natural for all of you to live under the same roof. The children must however not be allowed to encroach on the serenity and bliss of your marriage. It’s your duty to keep them out.
Many wives have made the mistake of sharing their affection and attention for their husband with their children; particularly the one they’re so fond of. There’s nothing wrong with expressing your motherly affection. It’s completely natural and necessary to do so. However, you must watch against letting your attention for the children erode the quality and intensity of your devotion and passion for your husband. Your devotion and passion for your husband should be growing and vice versa.
The couple in the Song of Solomon kept their relationship insulated from outside influence. They consistently and continually focused on each other, so much so that they were completely engulfed in each other’s love! This is what it should be your marriage too. When Spouses are continually and consistently “lost” in each other’s love, there’ll never be any occasion for infidelity. This depth of love is the will of God for all married couples. And this is no theory. It’s something you can attain in your marriage. It’s our calling at Maximum Marriage Ministries to help you attain that height of love in marriage.
In all the seasons of your married lives as a couple, always ensure that the quality and intensity of your romance and sexual adour never wanes. Your marriage was designed by God with the capacity to get better, richer and sweeter as you grow older. Ensure that this becomes the reality of your marriage.
“BETTER IS THE END OF A THING THAN THE BEGINNING THEREOF”(Ecclesiastes 7: 8a)
🍷🍗 TAKE-HOME LESSON: YOUR MARRIAGE IS AN EXCLUSIVE RELATIONSHIP OF YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE. ALWAYS ENSURE THAT YOUR LOVE AFFAIR IS STRONG, DEEP, INTENSE AND CONCENTRATED IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR MARRIAGE.
💕❤️ TONIGHT’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
Reread today’s devotional piece and check your union. Have you inadvertently allowed anything to encroach on it?
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