A FEW YEARS BACK, A HOUSEWIFE CAME for counseling over difficulties in enjoying the Bedroom aspect of her marriage. She wasn’t pleased with her husband’s lack of confidence in that aspect of their union.
She went on to mention another housewife, who, according to her, told her that if there’s anything she loves in marriage, it’s sexual intimacy with her own husband. Perhaps, comparing her own shabby bedroom experiences with this other lady’s great sex life,
made her feel more keenly the need to seek counseling.

Dear Spouses, overcoming the challenges of dissatisfaction in the Marriage bedroom is something so much within your easy reach. Basically, the knowledge of the Truth is the Master Key. Jesus said, AND YE SHALL KNOW THE TRUTH AND THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE!(John 8: 32)

When a husband lacks confidence in the bedroom, it has got to do with fear, timidity and a sense of inadequacy which have been produced by ignorance and wrong beliefs.
If your husband is challenged in this area, don’t get offended as a wife. Neither blame him. Instead be patient and lovingly encourage him.

Now, here are some truths that will help any couple who are not flowing harmoniously in the bedroom. Once you share the same sex beliefs that are solidly based on God’s Word, you’ll have the same understanding. This will help you live a glorious bedroom life. Knowledge of the Truth destroys fear, timidity and inferiority complex; and builds strong and rock-solid CONFIDENCE.

(1) THE TRUTH THAT SEXUAL INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE IS GOD’S CREATION FOR MARRIED COUPLES.
Sir/Ma, even though
sexual immorality has become rampant in the world today,
the Truth, however, is: it’s GOD ALMIGHTY that created Sexual Intimacy. Not the devil. And like all His other works that He examined in Genesis 1: 31, Sex is VERY GOOD. Not just that, it’s important you also know that He created it for married couples to use for procreation and for their mutual entertainment.

(2) YOUR BODY IS EXCELLENT BECAUSE IT’S MADE BY GOD.
One of the things that make some Spouses low on sexual self-confidence is “a feeling” that their body isn’t “good enough”. Such feelings are from the devil. Hear what the Psalmist said about his body:

“I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.” (Psalm 139:14)
You have no reason to feel inadequate about your body sexually. This is because in Sex: beauty, handsomeness and size just don’t count. What counts is SKILLFULNESS. Sex is like soccer, table tennis or academics. What makes you a WINNER in any of these isn’t your looks or size but your PERFORMANCE CAPABILITY. You can patiently grow your performance capability over time as you and your spouse come together regularly for sexual intimacy. Not once in a blue moon but regularly.

(3) HAVE A PURE HEARTED VIEW OF SEX.
The Bible says:

“UNTO THE PURE ALL THINGS ARE PURE: BUT UNTO THEM THAT ARE DEFILED AND UNBELIEVING IS NOTHING PURE; BUT EVEN THEIR MIND AND CONSCIENCE IS DEFILED.”(Titus 1: 15)
If you profess to be a born again Christian, then it’s important that you look at sexual intimacy from the Biblical perspective; which means that you should see it as the pure and undefiled activity created by God Himself.

But when you regard it as “a necessary evil or another form of fornication which married couples are permitted to perform”, that mindset will cripple your performance capacity. No two ways about it. This is because, AS A THINKS, SO HE IS. You can never perform well in an activity that you hate, belittle, criticize and think is semi-evil.

(4) SEXUAL INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE IS LIKE PURE, CLEAN AND SPARKLING WATER!
Let’s see what the Bible says in this regards:

“DRINK WATERS out of THINE OWN CISTERN, and running waters out of THINE OWN WELL.” (Proverbs 5:15″

God calls sexual intimacy in marriage WATER! Not Gold, Sapphire or Diamond but WATER: something within everyone’s easy reach. He didn’t just stop there: He tells you to DRINK IT!

And do you know what? Every body drinks water. There are people who don’t like Guava. There are those who don’t like Kolanuts. And there are others who would tell you that they don’t like Rice; as globally popular as it is. But there’s no one who who does not like water. I’ve seen only one person in my entire life who doesn’t like water and he was a mad man! You don’t need to be told why he didn’t like water, do you? The demons who took over his life increased his torments by prohibiting him from drinking water. Therefore, when you see a married man or woman that hates sexual intimacy in marriage, it’s demons that are at work tormenting them and equally using them to starve their Partner. It’s not natural to be married and claim that you don’t like Sex. It’s demonic.

Even if your relative got drowned in the river, you’ll still drink water because you know that water isn’t evil. It’s your relative that didn’t know how to swim. Not that water is bad.

Or if you were sexually abused as a girl child or even as a young woman, the right thing to do isn’t to hate Sex because Sex is not evil in itself. It just happened that your paths unfortunately crossed with those of evil men.

So, it’s completely natural to love, cherish and freely enjoy sexual intimacy with your Spouse in your marriage. It’s the water of the married life.

🔥🔥🔥FAITH DECREE:
🔥 LET THE THE TRUTHS YOU HAVE LEARNED THIS MORNING RENEW AND REINVIGORATE YOUR MARRIAGE; AND ESPECIALLY YOUR BEDROOM LIFE.

🍷🍗 TAKE-HOME LESSON: YOU ARE GOD’S EXCELLENT CREATION. GOD HAS ALREADY SUPER-EQUIPPED YOU FOR SUPER SUCCESS IN YOUR BEDROOM LIFE. THEREFORE, BE CONFIDENT!

💕❤️ TONIGHT’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
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