SOME OF THE THINGS THE Devil is using to hold Spouses back from freely enjoying the full benefits of their romantic and sexual rights in Marriage are: myths, superstitions, taboos and traditions.
In our world today, many don’t eat certain foods, meats and fruits just because their tribal traditions forbid them. Similarly, many don’t make the most of the grand opportunity given to them to enjoy their Spouse romantically and sexually because of traditions, myths and superstitions handed down from the past.
We’re going to take a look at some of these enemies of marriage.
(1) MEN LIKE SEX MORE THAN WOMEN.
This is a Myth.
It is a lie from Satan the father of all lies.
As we can see in our anchor scripture, God calls Sexual intimacy in marriage WATER and that’s exactly what it is. And just as THIRST is what creates the need for drinking natural water, so also is SEXUAL URGE what creates the need for sexual intimacy among Spouses.
To say that men like Sex more than women is like saying that men like water more than women; which we all know isn’t true.
It’s not known any where that one gender drinks water more than the other.
Women drink water as much and as freely as men. Why? Because there’s no difference in the degree of thirst between men and women. Men are not more thirsty than women. Neither are women more thirsty than men.
Their thirst are the same and so are their quest for Water.
All that are true about ordinary water are true about the water of sexual intimacy in marriage. The premise that men love sex more than women is therefore a fallacy.
(2) THAT IT IS FORBIDDEN TO MAKE LOVE IN THE AFTERNOON OR UNDER LIGHT AT NIGHT
The aim of this satanic taboo is to keep Spouses from seeing each other during sexual intimacy. The devil knows that seeing each during the act GREATLY BOOSTS your mutual enjoyment of it.
Just imagine yourself eating a N30K lunch in the beautiful and fascinating banquet hall of a five-star hotel but in pitch darkness! Your enjoyment would definitely be greatly diminished. Why? Because seeing the sumptuous meal and the glorious setting in which you’re eating it increases your pleasure. Spouses who almost always make love in darkness experience highly diminished pleasure.
Spouses who have spacious homes where their children, guests and house helps have seperate rooms could take advantage of the day time seasons to make love. It gives you the opportunity to see each other and watch the act. The “natural video camera” in your minds will film the whole episode and store them safely for future nostalgic reference!
A WORD OF CAUTION: Whenever embarking on daytime sexual intimacy in your bedroom, PLEASE, ENSURE that you have securely locked your bedroom door!
Also ensure that your window curtains are wide, solid and thick. This is because we are in the days of Android Phones with powerful cameras. You must ensure that your window curtains are fully covering your windows. But if your home is fenced with high walls then you are safe from being filmed by enemies or treacherous house helps.
(3) THAT SEXUAL INTIMACY “TASTES” SWEETER TO MEN THAN WOMEN.
This is yet another lie from the devil. This lie has caused many wives to pretend in the bedroom giving an impression that they neither like nor enjoy Sex; because they fear that they’ll be castigated for loving sex since most believe that women don’t like Sex.
Well, I am sent to tell both husbands and wives that God created men and women to need each other sexually, to desire each other sexually and to satisfy one another sexually in the covenant bond of love called Marriage.
Men don’t enjoy sex more than women. Neither do women enjoy Sex more intensely than men.
When you give a whole fried chicken to a husband and give another to his wife, who enjoys the meat better? The husband or the wife? Answer: They enjoy it equally!
If you hand a couple a big mug of chilled fruit juice to sip at the same time with their separate drinking straws, who’ll enjoy the drink better? They’ll both enjoy it equally.
Similarly, the wife enjoys the sexual organs and the entire male body of her husband as much as he enjoys hers. Even though some would tend to believe that women enjoy the sexual act more because they’re endowed with far more nerve endings than men and can also experience multiple orgasms, this advantage serves not only the wife but her husband as well in that the intensity of her enjoyment intensifies his own enjoyment also.
(4) THAT MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS BY NATURE AND CAN’T STAY WITH ONE WOMAN.
This is a very dumb fallacy.
Man was created monogamous by God and monogamy is best for his love life.
In a marriage bond with one wife, both the husband and wife GROW TOGETHER in their love, romance, passion, affection, understanding, unity and sexual intimacy. Their love over time increases, deepens, intensifies continually and grows to heights that unfaithful husbands who are going from harlot to harlot have no idea exist.
Men who move from woman to woman to woman are like the proverbial rolling stone that gathers no moss. They’re like the fabled Jack of all trades who ends up mastering none.
As for husbands and wives who stay sexually faithful to each other and are CONSISTENTLY ACTIVE sexually, they move from one level of sexual satisfaction to higher ones until they both become sexual intimacy Grand Masters and Adepts.
(5) THAT DURING SEXUAL INTIMACY, THE HUSBAND IS THE ONE WHO SHOULD BE ACTIVE WHILE THE WIFE SHOULD BE PASSIVE.
If you know how much harm this lie of the devil has done to marriages, you’d be sad. It has driven many husbands to strange women in the belief that “those are the Active Lovers”. After all, they call themselves “Sex Workers”.
Madam, please, wake up!
Another name for sexual intimacy is Sexual Intercourse.
Generally speaking, an intercourse is ACTIVE communication or interaction between two persons. So, sexual intercourse in marriage is a SEXUAL ACTIVITY. During the act, both husband and wife should be FULLY ACTIVE. The wife shouldn’t be inactive. The saying that a wife is responder isn’t true. She should be ACTIVE. She gets her satisfaction(orgasms) through being simultaneously active with her husband!
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Reread today’s devotional piece and discuss it.
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