WHEN YOU VISIT THE BATHROOM, there’s really not much on your mind except to answer the call of nature. And of course, you already know that you won’t spend much time doing that.
As you get in there, you don’t even undress. It’s not necessary. You only adjust your trousers to be able to pass water and you’re soon done and out. The whole exercise doesn’t last more than three minutes. Perhaps much less.
Similarly, those who visit harlots have the “Urination Mentality”. They have to. This is because their service providers, the Prostitutes, require them to be VERY BRIEF so they could attend to other customers who are waiting outside.
But how privileged you are to have a MARRIAGE BEDROOM! And how blessed you are to have a Wife; an adult, full-bodied and voluptuous woman: all your own!(Prov.18:22)
The MARRIAGE BEDROOM is a unique world where you are allowed full liberty to freely strip and blend as one with your Spouse. It’s the Palace of Married Love where you’re blessed with the distinguished presence of Her Romantic Majesty, The Queen of Love (HRMTQL), even your Wife!
When you’re together in that hallowed chamber, with Her Romantic Majesty, The Queen of Love, all sense of hurry, haste and rushing must be thrown out the window. Here’s why.
Lovemaking to your Wife, The Queen of Love, is completely different from urination or the hurried visit to the demon possessed and disease infested prostitutes. As a matter of fact , they’re whole worlds apart.
More importantly, you need to know that your Queen was created with a nature that needs some tender-loving stirring and affectionate stimulation, much like fanning a newly made fire to full blazing flames, to be ready for the grand act of intromission and fusion. In other words, her arousal process isn’t like yours. Whereas, as a man, you’re ready for intimacy within mere seconds, your Queen needs more time to be truly ready for congress. That’s exactly how God created her.
True lovemaking in marriage is comparable to a leisurely and unhurried journey through a vast kingdom with beautiful and breathtaking panorama of glorious landscapes, rivers and forests of flowers. And as you travel, your focus mustn’t just be on the destination. You must be interested in enjoying every bit of the unfolding scenario, as the invisible gold gilded wagon of Love and it’s ethereal Horse of Eros convey you and Her Romantic Majesty, The Queen of Love to Love’s Wonderland.
As a husband, you need to learn to shift your focus from yourself to seeking to help your Queen get into her arousal process, progress therein, accelerate and mount up with the wings of love to the table land of full readiness where the Congress of Love may begin.
As a man, God wired you to be so easily aroused so you would give time and attention to preparing Madam deeply. One of the credentials you would need to earn is that of being an
an Adept who always takes great delight in Preparing Her Deeply(PHD) for bedroom encounters that consistently grant her the fullest satisfaction in the Palace of Married Love.
As the congress goes on, your mind must be fixed on giving obedience to the ever resonating words of 1 Corinthians 7: 3a
“LET THE HUSBAND RENDER UNTO THE WIFE DUE BENEVOLENCE”(1 Corinthians 7: 3a)
This means that your basic assignment in the Marriage Bedroom isn’t to feed yourself fat but to RENDER, GIVE, SUPPLY, PROVIDE AND MINISTER
erotic ecstasy and orgasmic pleasures to Her Romantic Majesty, your Wife, for her satisfaction. That must be your focus and aim as you’re together in the Palace of Married Love. This is because in the arena of romantic and sexual love, just as in life as a whole, it is always more blessed to give than to receive!(Acts 20:35). And in giving your Queen selfless lovemaking, you reap so much harvests of pleasure in return (Luke 6: 38).
However, there are wives who don’t like the kind of lovemaking detailed above. They prefer 100 meter sprints that last 2 or 3 minutes to leisurely cross-country rides that last one hour and more.
If your wife is this type, adjust to the type of lovemaking she loves. The important thing is to give her the satisfaction she desires and deserves.
π₯π₯π₯ FAITH DECREE:
π₯LET THE GRACE AND THE UNDERSTANDING TO MINISTER SELFLESS SEXUAL LOVE TO THEIR WIVES BE ABUNDANTLY GRANTED TO EVERY HUSBAND READING THIS DEVOTIONAL PIECE!β‘
π·π TAKE-HOME LESSON: LOVEMAKING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT LIKE URINATION OR A HURRIED TIME WITH A PROSTITUTE. IT’S A COVENANT FEAST AND CELEBRATION OF LOVE. MAKE IT LONG LASTING AND MEMORABLE; EXCEPT WHEN YOU BOTH PREFER TO KEEP IT BRIEF.
πβ€οΈ TONIGHT’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
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