THE DEVIL HAS RESET OR ALTERED VERY many of the things that God in His wisdom created. One of those things is the behaviour of women.
Since God’s purpose for creating the woman was for her to be a Spouse and a Lover to Man in Marriage, He designed her to STRONGLY DESIRE her husband sexually in the Marriage relationship. So fundamental and so important was this design that even when Eve sinned and also led her husband into Sin and God decreed painful childbirth as her punishment, He refused to shift that setting or design. He bluntly told her that even though she would experience labour pains, yet she would always love sexual intimacy with her husband:
“To the woman He said, I will greatly multiply your grief and your suffering in pregnancy and the pangs of childbearing; with spasms of distress you will bring forth children. YET YOUR DESIRE AND CRAVING WILL BE FOR YOUR HUSBAND, and he will rule over you.” (Genesis 3:16; AMPC)
So, every woman’s original setting is to greatly delight in sexual relations with her husband. Not even the pains in the labour room would make her disinclined to this craving! So a wife who craves frequent sexual intimacy with her husband is natural. She’s in the original divine design and in God’s perfect will.
But when look at the world today, you’ll see that this has been altered in the lives of many women. By who? The devil of course. He has brought lies, assumptions, culture, traditions and even religion to alter the original settings of God.
Today, many wives believe it’s a sign of weakness or lack of self-control for them to readily and easily consent to their husband’s request for sexual intimacy. Such wives would dribble their husbands back and forth, sometimes for days, before finally consenting. Ask them why they do this and they’ll tell you that when you easily consent to your husband, he’ll not respect you any more; he’ll get tired of you; he’ll see you a cheap woman.
The truth however is that such wives have had their minds “reset” by the devil and are now his Agent in their Marriage with the assignment of frustrating their husbands into unfaithfulness and infidelity.
A married woman once lamented to me that her elder brother was seriously planning to marry a second wife not because he desired to be polygamous but because his wife was fond of starving him sexually. Other instances like this abound. Do you still wonder why marital unfaithfulness and extramarital affairs are on the increase?
Now, while the devil is busy “resetting” the minds of wives to believe that it’s a sign of “cheapness” to be always readily available to their husbands for sex and that they must resist his touches, his attempts to kiss them, and almost all his romantic advances, the same devil is on the other hand marshalling women outside marriages to hunt for husbands! Can you see the arrangement? The wives are to drive their husbands out and the women outside are to hunt for them and take them as captive preys!
Let’s look at God’s Word:
“THE ADULTERESS WILL HUNT FOR THE PRECIOUS LIFE.”(Proverbs 6: 26b)
According to the verse above the immoral women are not waiting for men to come to them. They go out on fierce hunting campaigns. And you need to know that no one goes out to hunt without being armed. These women arm themselves first with the power of seduction, allurement and enticement by dressing “to kill”.
“10 AND, BEHOLD, THERE MET HIM A WOMAN WITH THE ATTIRE OF AN HARLOT, and subtil of heart.” (Proverbs 7:10)
Not only do these women dress to successfully woo men into their bosom, they are not playing “Go Slow” like most housewives. They give the men hot, bold and full kisses ever before theyΒ think of requesting for it:
“13 SO SHE CAUGHT HIM, AND KISSED HIM, AND WITH AN IMPUDENT FACE said unto him” (Proverbs 7: 10-13)
See how sexy the women outside are? The rights of dressing to attract her man belong to the wife. A wife should be attractive and compellingly desirous to her husband so much so that he’s continually drawn to her. That’s what we see in the Song of Solomon where the man profusely praises and admires his Lady’s beauty. But in many marriages today, the wives feel looking “knockout” for their husbands isn’t necessary anymore. And so the strange women outside are having a field day dressing and killing.
Let’s look at the world again and see what the unsaved women do:
“16 Whoso is simple, let him turn in hither: and as for him that wanteth understanding, she saith to him,
17 Stolen waters are sweet, and bread eaten in secret is pleasant” (Proverbs 9: 13-17)
Now, the women outside are beautiful as you already know. But so also are the wives! Wives are very beautiful too. But here’s the difference: while most wives hide their feminine allures and endowments, the ones outside advertise them loudly and call men to come and be served to their satisfaction(stolen waters). While Madam is being almost always begged to offer hers to her legitimate husband, the women outside offer theirs willingly and at modest costs and sometimes on credit. Are married men going to them? Yes, they go to them in their thousands EVERY NIGHT!
Many years ago, during my stint with a highly respected international Ministry, our Director went to town at about 9 PM with my colleague to do some important ministry business that needed to be sent abroad.
By the time my colleague returned, he was unusually quite. I asked him what the matter was that he was so unlike himself. He then told me what he saw in the place they went. He saw literally HUNDREDS of beautiful ladies who were waiting for men to pick them for sexual business! He said each of them was not just beautiful but so pretty they could win the Miss Nigeria contest.
I asked if men were coming to pick them. “Yes, of course!”, he said. He added that the vast majority of the men that were picking the ladies were elderly married men! This was over twenty years ago.
Who arranged all this? Satan did. He teaches wives to be sexually unsubmissive to their husbands whereas God said a wife’s desire shall be always for her husband(Genesis 3:16)and that she should submit herself to her husband in all things including sexual intimacy(Ephesians 5:24).
On the other hand he makes the women outside very hard-headed they’re prepared to snatch other women’s husbands no matter the cost!
Are you a married woman? The question is: has the devil reset your mind to believe that it’s a mark lack of self-control or cheapness to always yield to your husband’s sexual advances? If so, ask God touch you and reset you.
And husband, has the devil reset your mind and made you to believe that strange women are “sweeter” than your wife? That’s a satanic lie and delusion. Ask God to reset your mind to once again cherish your wife and be content with her alone.
π₯π₯π₯ FAITH DECREE:
π₯LET EVERY WIFE READING THIS DEVOTIONAL WHOSE MIND HAS BEEN RESET BY THE DEVIL BE LIBERATED BY THE POWER OF GOD RIGHT NOW, IN JESUS’ MIGHTY NAME!β‘
π·π TAKE-HOME LESSON: DEAR WIFE, GOD CREATED YOU FOR YOUR HUSBAND AND DESIGNED YOU TO CHERISH SEXUAL INTIMACY WITH HIM. LET THAT BE YOUR MINDSET ALWAYS!
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