LIONS ARE STRONG BUT LIONESSES ARE MORE THAN JUST STRONG; THEY ARE DEADLY! This is because they are more ferocious in their hunting since they’re not just mindful of themselves but of their cubs that can’t fend for themselves. As they can’t afford to watch their young ones starve, they throw they’re entire being into every hunting endeavour they undertake.
Female dogs with puppies behave similarly. As you approach them, they growl; and soon they’re aggressively barking to warn you not to come any further. At this point, you may have to call their owner to calm them down before you can go any further. But why their hostility ? It’s because they don’t want you to come anywhere near their puppies. Foresight!
Unfortunately, many wives see their husband straying into infidelity with strange women and they’re only jealous and angry and raise their voices to let the entire neighbourhood know how “the stupid man” is now following one small girl.
Such uproar yields nothing because it will effect no positive changes. Neither are your jealousy and anger strong enough to turn him around.
Madam, what you need are godly steps that are based on foresight. In this case, FORESIGHT is the ability to see and know what is likely to happen in the future should your husband persist with his unfaithfulness and to know the right actions to take to prevent the foreseeable disaster.
Dear Wife, please, be informed that many husbands go into infidelity out of ignorance and the misguided belief that “a real man” would have another woman beside his legitimate wife. So the right step to take, as already stated, isn’t to be jealous and angry. It’s be foresighted, it is to be informed and to transform into AN ADEPT LOVER AND AN AGENT OF RESCUE who operates on a purely biblical height of love that the women he’s been going out to, can never match!
(A) BE FORESIGHTED
Just this afternoon, I went on the internet to read about the fall of some preachers who were highly respected, loved and celebrated in the 1980s but crashed because of sex outside their marriages.
Reading the story of one them, I saw the extremely high price he had to pay for just fifteen minutes of diluted sex he had with a girl who was a worker in his prosperous and fabulously rich ministry! This girl turned out to be a A STRANGE WOMAN IN THE CHURCH. To cover up the scandal, the Servant of God paid her $200,000. Yet she took the lid off the secret. But would you blame her? The man shouldn’t have given in to sin in the first place. And so the Man of God fell into world wide disgrace. The Ministry crashed very badly. There were deep and widespread emotional pains; heavy burdens on the children, he was sentenced to years in prison, etc. And when he later regained his freedom and came out , things haven’t quite returned to exactly how they used to be.
So when a wife knows ahead of time the exceedingly high consequences of infidelity, she would soberly pray, plan and prepare herself to implement
the commands of God’s Word that would make her husband turn from the dangerous path of infidelity.
(B) BE INFORMED
One other thing that will help you win and wean your husband from infidelity is be informed of the fact that God is daily dealing with men and women who are unfaithful to their husbands and wives. He however doesn’t use the approach of quarrelling or contention. He, instead, speaks peacefully and respectfully with them and to them. We can see a very vivid and apt example of this in Proverbs 5: 1-20.
From verse 1-14, He lovingly warns against infidelity and then goes on to detail the risks, harzard, dangers, calamities and tragedy that come with infidelity. And from Proverbs 5: 15-19, He tells Spouses to freely and fully enjoy sexual intimacy in their marriage.
When you are thus informed, you can sit down with your husband and share this same Proverbs 5:1-19 with him: showing him the warnings and dangers in verses 1-14 and the abundant sexual liberty given in verses 15-20. And tell him that you want both of you to base your marriage fully and heavily on Proverbs 5: 1-19.
(C) TRANSFORM INTO AN ADEPT LOVER AND AN AGENT OF RESCUE
Truth be told: most housewives are too slow and too cold sexually. Where were you born and raised, Madam? Is it not here on Earth? Is it news to you that strange women are very many and all over the place? Many of the housewives know all these things but they still believe the traditional view that a wife “must not show that she likes Sex”. Instead she should be passive in the bedroom. This attitude has made many women lose their husbands to strange women who know that men want a women who are lively, active and “hot” in bed.
So, as a wife who has known the far reaching and heavily destructive effects of sexual scandal, you will work on yourself and transform into AN ADEPT SEXUAL LOVER AND AN AGENT OF RESCUE FOR YOUR HUSBAND.
This transformation will become possible when you understand that God’s Word supports it FULLY because God doesn’t endorse any form of mediocrity. Therefore, when you make the choice of sexual excellence so as to save your husband from bringing the whole family down through infidelity, you’re doing something that God will back up.
Finally, there’s this important truth that all married couples need to understand and it this: it’s criminal and morally wrong for us to look at sexual intimacy in marriage with the same “bad eyes” with which we look at sexual immorality. This is the problem of many married couples: they equate sex in marriage with fornication. It’s like equating sawdust with pure gold. How will you then respect the gold?
Sexual immorality is sawdust whereas sexual intimacy in marriage is pure gold.
Proudly enjoy sexual intimacy with your husband. When
he discovers that you’re consistently active, hot and superlatively good sexually; and always readily available for him, he’ll run from those dirty women who have been milking him economically. And your marriage will become new, fresh and secure to the glory of God!
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🍷🍗 TAKE-HOME LESSON: SEXUAL INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE IS A DEFENSE, JUST AS MONEY AND WISDOM ARE ALSO DEFENSES.
DON’T USE IT LIGHTLY. USE IT FULLY!!!
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