IN SOME OF OUR RECENT DEVOTIONAL TEACHINGS(March 4th & March 6th 2025), we focused on wives becoming Sex Adepts for their husbands and husbands becoming Sex Adepts for their wives.
Today, we are looking at the need for both Spouses to be like-minded Lovers who are highly desirous and keenly yearn for A SUPERLATIVE SEX LIFE in their marriage. Mutually having such a quest that you’re both spiritedly pursuing, makes your minds and bodies so busy, so occupied and so entwined that you have no time to think about the folly called infidelity! You’ll be like the Spouses in the Song of Solomon who were endlessly engrossed in their love for each other they had neither time nor thoughts for any distraction or detractors.
In Marriage, it’s important that your sex life as a couple not be mediocre, passive, average, drab or humdrum. You should consciously work together to build a strong, sensational and topnotch sex life.
You can each be proficient, highly skillful and thrilling in bed. All these basically depend on how much mental and spiritual freedom you both have as a couple. If the Word of God has liberated your minds from the shackles of ignorance, taboos, traditions, culture, customs and superstitions that restrict sexual freedom in marriage, then you’ll both see sexual intimacy in marriage for what it truly is: a multipurpose blessing of God given to enrich your marriage and your lives EVERY NEW DAY! You’ll see it, among other things, as the bedroom sports for building your emotional and bodily wellbeing.
In any Sport, you must commit time to exercise and train; ideally, everyday. You must throw yourself completely into it until you grow and become a Grand Master in it. The same holds true in marital Sex.
You cannot go about Sex in marriage with a casual and lackadaisical attitude and grow in it. No. That’s why there are very many couples who have been married for 20 years but their sexual practice in the marriage bedroom is nothing to write home about. It’s still the same old monotonous missionary position and the duration never goes beyond two to three minutes; just as it was when they started out in marriage. Infact, they don’t even know that they ought to have grown well beyond that by now.
One of my old friends who was a Radio Presenter told me in 1985, that as a Presenter, your new Programme should not be like the previous one, no matter how well received it was by the listening audience. Your goal must always be for your new Programme to be better and more impactful than the last one. This should be the mindset of Spouses about their intimate life: every time you come together, seek to make your New Act better than the previous one.
Sex is comparable to singing. I can speak authoritatively about this because I’m a Singer by God’s grace. As every other Singer or Music Director, would tell you, the more you exercise your voice by practically singing, the better it gets. So also is in Sex. The more you have Sex with your husband or wife, the better you are at the Act. This is something most married couples don’t know and it’s because in their minds they view sexual intimacy as something that should be had occasionally and without any need for the touch of class. So, it doesn’t occur to them to practice it often so as to excell in it and serve each other better.
Sexual intimacy in marriage is like Music and your Spouse is excellently comparable to a musical instrument. We all know that it takes consistent practice to know how to play any musical instruments well. To grow up to the level where you are professionally recognized as a Maestro on that instrument takes years of dedicated and consistent practices and closeness to your chosen musical instrument.
When God made Marriage a strict union of one man and one woman, it was with the mind that they would dedicate their love and affection to each other and grow in all spheres of love life so much so that they would become experts, adepts, virtuosos, grandmasters and maestros in handling each other. It takes consistent intimacy and years of close friendship to arrive at that golden point. That’s why infidelity and all such things the devil brings to draw spouses off from each other into sinful relationship outside their marriages are never enjoyment but entrapment and bondage to keep them from growing and enjoying the rich benefits of their marriage.
Get closer and closer to your marriage partner EVERY DAY. Have a desire to know each other better. Engage in sexual intimacy as often as you both find convenient because you’ll gain by it as it strengthens, deepens, reinforces and consolidates your oneness.
Sex isn’t just for making babies; it’s for so much more. It’s at the heart of your marriage. And the more of it you both have, the healthier your marriage and your individual lives because it holds many rich spiritual and health benefits that time and space would not permit us to discuss here. So Sex isn’t “a lazy and unserious activity” as many unenlightened minds suppose. It’s one of God’s highest gifts to the marriage institution and the marriage institution is the very bedrock of society. So you can see the lofty position of matrimonial sex!
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🔥LET THE GRACE TO PURSUE AND ATTAIN A GRADE “A” SEX LIFE BE BESTOWED ON EVERY SPOUSE READING THIS DEVOTIONAL PIECE, IN JESUS’ MIGHTY NAME!⚡⚡⚡
🍷🍗 TAKE-HOME LESSON: YOU CAN HAVE A GRADE “A” SEX LIFE AS A COUPLE. GO FOR IT USING THE TEACHING OF TODAY’S DEVOTIONAL PIECE.
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