IF YOU WALK ON A QUITE BEACH🏝🏖⛱⛱⛱ AT Sunset🌄🌄🌄 and find a man and woman lying facedown on a large mat spread on the sand, completely naked while conversing and sipping fruit juice🧃🧃🧃🧃 with colourful straws, what would be your first impression of what their identity could be? You’d think that they’re Lovers, illicit lovers. Even if they’re actually married, your first thoughts aren’t that they husband and wife but illegitimate Lovers. Why? Because our experience in the society is that most married couples don’t practice romantic love as freely as illicit lovers. It’s rather unfortunate because those who should be ashamed to practice romantic love aren’t, but are bold and audacious, demonstrating what belongs to married couples and doing it flagrantly in defiance and rebellion in wrong places; whereas those to whom it rightly belongs and who should practice it boldly and freely in the right and proper places are ashamed😣, timid😞 and uncomfortable🥹🥹🥹 with it in their own bedrooms; even after every where is quite and the kids have all gone to bed!

Now, can you see the dilemma of the marriage institution?
It’s like the pathetic situation observed by King Solomon where Servants rode honourably on horses🏇🏇🏇🏇🏇🏇 while Princes trekked🦶🦶🦶🦶 miles, perhaps on barefoot!

“I have seen servants upon horses, and princes walking as servants upon the earth.”(Ecclesiastes 10:7)

Our anchor scripture shows us that in the Beginning, the first couple were completely free with their nakedness showing us that love lives thrive where there’s freedom of the spirit, mind AND BODY. They were not ashamed! Shame came only after they sinned by eating the forbidden fruit.

However, it’s important for all married couples, especially those who are born again, to know that Jesus Christ has come and as many as believe in Him are set free from their sins and made new creatures. Being new creatures, therefore, they are free to live above shame. They are free to use their nakedness to thrill one another in and beyond the bedroom but in decency and righteousness.

Spouses, you need to understand that your first identity in Marriage isn’t “Husband and Wife” or “Mr and Mrs” but LOVERS! You became LOVERS the moment you agreed to marry each other. However, you needed to get LICENCED to practice LOVE. And after you got formally and fully married, you were officially licenced📄📄📄 BY GOD to practice LOVE. And not only that, the formalizing of your union gave you the prefixes “Mr & Mrs” with the new titles “Husband & Wife”. However, you must not allow your prefixes and titles swallow up your FIRST IDENTITY and it’s lifestyle. That’s the mistake over ninety percent of couples have made and their marriage gradually lost it’s sweetness.

Marriage👰🧑‍🚀 was designed by God to be a blazing and unending love affair. Extramarital affairs are poor imitations and counterfeit of the marital love affair that should envelope you and your spouse EVERYDAY! But because most couples soon buried their identity🪪🪪🪪 and lifestyle as Lovers and wore the toga of “Bread Winner”💰👷🥸💰(Husband) and “Domestic Engineer”🧑‍🍳🫕🫕🫕🍝🦞🍝🥩(Wife) and relate as mere co-tenants, their Marriage became humdrum and boring. And soon, one of the two, foolishly thinks an extramarital affair holds some fun and relief for them!

Sir/Ma, what do the poor, deluded and misled souls do in extramarital affairs anyway? Engaging in sinful romance and sinful Sex and eating pepper soup🍲🍲 and drinking beer🍺🍺🍺. Isn’t that all? But they do these things in secrecy, with pounding hearts and looking over their shoulders for fear of being caught. And after it’s all over, they part ways, each one carrying within them a stabbing🗡🗡🗡 conscience. For the men it’s even more: they return home with lean wallets💰💰💰, troubled hearts and weakened libido that can’t satisfy Madam’s bedroom hunger. And she scans his guilty face and quietly interprets it. So, where’s the gain in the trade?

Beloved, the truth is: no one needs extramarital affairs, side-chicks or side-dudes. Everything you need for an endlessly thrilling love life is already in your Marriage💍💍💍. All you need is KNOWLEDGE. Knowledge will knock out ignorance and shame and equip you with Grace and Boldness to function as practical Married Lovers in your Marriage.

It’s time to reclaim and relive what God graciously gave long ago in the Garden of Eden🌲🌳🍁🪴🪴🍀🍄: A LOVE AFFAIR MARRIAGE!

🔥🔥🔥 FAITH DECREE:
🔥 LET THE SPIRITUAL EYES OF EVERY READER OF THIS DEVOTIONAL PIECE BE OPENED TO SEE AND UNDERSTAND THE GLORIOUS BEAUTY OF THE LOVE AFFAIR MARRIAGE AS GIVEN IN EDEN!

🍷🍗 TAKE-HOME LESSON: MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE A LOVE AFFAIR MARRIAGE. YOU DO SO BY PRACTICING GOD’S WORD ON MARRIAGE.

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