IT’S ABSOLUTELY TRUE THAT AT THE ONSET OF LOVE between a man and a woman, it’s the man who proposes marriage to the lady and her’s is the honour to respond, kick-starting the beautiful relationship that eventually culminates in marriage. It’s indeed similar to Christ leaving His heavenly throne and coming to planet Earth to redeem the Church. But once redeemed, the Church isn’t always waiting to respond to Christ! Instead, it cheerily and spontaneously expresses it’s love for Him daily and in a hundred and more ways.
Today, Believers love Christ by prayers, evangelism, worship, offering of praises, etc. We gladly take personal initiatives to express our love for Him. This is how it ought to be with wives. Don’t always be waiting for your husband to do or say something good before you respond to him.
From the moment you got married, you became free to initiate love, romance and sex between you and your husband. Nothing is too big to initiate in love for your Man. For instance, I read about a housewife who offered her husband the gift of making love with her for one full year(365 consecutive days) as her Birthday present to him!
In the Song of Solomon, we see the lady being as romantically hot, fervent, energetic, vibrant and active as her man. This is a good model for all married women.
And wives, please hear this! We live in a world where there are more women than there are men and many of the women “outside” are eager to snatch other women’s husbands. These Snatchers are your competitors. Be informed that these competitors and contenders, whom we call strange women, are not taking the “Responder” posture. They are not waiting for your husband to act so they’d respond. They dress up beautifully and boldly go where your man is to woo him, to tempt him and to kiss him without him asking for it; just as we can see in the woman in our anchor scripture for today. If the women outside are radical, are you not supposed to wise up and shift from the “Responder” posture in your relationship with your husband?
Much as it’s good to walk in modesty as a lady, it’s also very necessary that you’re romantically intelligent and sexually smart so your marriage doesn’t fall prey to these predatory women who are on the streets in their thousands.
Now, let’s focus our discussion on the bedroom life. It’s important for every wife to know that her sexual organ isn’t merely a receptacle. It’s an active love apparatus with grasping and squeezing powers. With these powers fully put to use during sexual intimacy with your husband, you’ll transport yourself and your spouse to “far away planets”; making him to love you better and to ask for more “flights” to outer space!
As a wife, the Church and the woman in the Song of Solomon are the examples you’re to follow. And as the Church is ever hungry and thirsty for more of Christ, so should you be hungrily desirous of your husband.
Enough of the traditional and cultural approach of feeling that if your husband knows that you desire him, he’d look down on you. That’s the lie of the devil that he’s used to make many husbands believe that wives are romantically cold and tasteless and that it’s the women outside that are hot and sweet. It’s time to smash that lie in your marriage.
And husbands, please listen. There’s great power in scriptural teachings such as the one you’re reading right now. They impact the hearts, minds and bodies of the wives that read them: reshaping and transforming their mindset and conduct in marriage. Therefore, when your wife after reading this Devotional piece becomes more romantically active towards you than before, don’t take her transformation for granted because it didn’t come cheap; it came by Grace. Therefore, give thanks to God for the change in her and also go out of your way to appreciate her. Yes, joyfully celebrate her for shifting from the cultural mode to the biblical pattern of wifehood!!!
🔥🔥🔥FAITH DECREE:
🔥 LET EVERY WIFE THAT READS THIS DEVOTIONAL PIECE, RECEIVE THE GRACE TO BOLDLY SHIFT FROM THE TRADITIONAL MODE TO THE BIBLICAL PATTERN OF WIFEHOOD!
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🍷🍗 TAKE-HOME LESSON: DEAR WIFE, FREELY INITIATE ROMANTIC ACTIVITIES IN YOUR MARRIAGE!
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Reread today’s devotional piece just before bedtime and discuss it.
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