📺🌹OUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE for today shows that romantic love and sexual intimacy between husband and wife should be “AT ALL TIMES” and “ALWAYS”! Not weekly or fortnightly. Or worse still, monthly.
The mistaken and wrong notion amongst most Spouses is that sexual intimacy is for pregnancy and making babies. But that’s completely incorrect.
📺🌹Sexual Intimacy is primarily for married couples to use in cleaving to each other repeatedly or regularly and for strengthening their covenant love and commitment to each other. And God has given them the intelligence to use sexual intimacy without it resulting in pregnancy!
📺🌹Food for thought: Have you ever wondered why Eve didn’t conceive while they were in the Garden of Eden? Or you think she was barren? Or you suppose Adam was a dumb religious prude who was too shy to touch her?
Sir/Ma, Adam wasn’t a religious fanatic or a dumb dude who was blind to Eve’s fierce charms and allures. Neither was Eve barren.
She was super fruitful!
She didnt get pregnant because they were in the fullness of the image of God and had sexual intelligence on how to make love without it resulting in pregnancy!
They were practicing pregnancy-free or no-pregnancy sexual
intimacy while in Eden and so can you!
📺🌹If they did at a time when there were no Doctors and contraceptives, how much better advantaged are you?
Now, here’s how you and your Spouse can practice sexual intimacy DAILY.
1) 📺🌹HAVE A RENEWED MIND(Romans 12: 2b)
Have a transformed and renewed mentality about Sex. It’s not primarily for pregnancy. It’s firstly for cleaving to each other and building up your love for each other.
Make up your mind to have sex daily just as you’ve made up your mind to freely drink water daily.
2) 📺🌹 PRACTICE OUTERCOURSE
Stop thinking of sexual intimacy only in terms of penetration and full vaginal intercourse!!!
You can also practice “OUTERCOURSE”. This is doing everything without the penis entering the vagina. Instead, husband should focus his penis on the wife’s Clitoris. Madam should ensure that her Clitoris is well lubricated with a suitable vaginal lube or oil. Coconut oil or Olive oil are natural and good.
3) 📺🌹 SENSUAL INTERCOURSE
Practice Sensual Intercourse. You do this by stripping fully and spending time, good time, scratching, massaging, caressing and fondling each other. You do this turn by turn. This is good during the daytime. Make sure you do this in your marriage bedroom and the door well locked.
A lot of times, husbands are so focused on penetration of the vagina. As a result, they don’t give proper attention to the Clitoris. During the time of Sensual Intimacy, the husband can give much time to gently caressing, rubbing and fondling the Clitoris for the delight of Madam. With your fingers lovingly stimulating her Clitoris, engage your mouth with the job of sucking her nipples one after the other. The combo will thrill her greatly!
4) 📺🌹 BRIEF INTERCOURSE
We earlier saw in this series of teaching, that, sexual intimacy in marriage is the physical equivalence of prayer in the Believer’s life.
Sometimes, the Believer prays for an hour or more. But when he’s on the go, he whispers a two minutes prayer to God. Both are acceptable to God and build his intimacy with Him.
Similarly, when you have no time for 45 minutes sex, you can have a 5 minutes intercourse. Husband could deliberately leave out ejaculation. You can do it again after sometime. 3 episodes of it in one afternoon will revitalize your relationship and get both of you smiling!
As a couple, be observant to notice when your home is free and conducive for Brief Sex and use the opportunity.
In 2002, I read the teaching of a Lagos based female marriage counselor in which she encouraged housewives to visit their husbands in the office, if he’s an executive with a secure office, and have Brief Sex with him in the office!
Sounds revolutionary or even scandalous, right? But it’s such unique love escapades that make marriage romantic and memorable!
5) 📺🌹 KISSES SESSIONS
What will happen if you both decide to kiss for one long hour? Will any one drag you to court? No!
But a lot of times, couples don’t use their head and imagination. Adam and Eve used their heads and kept pregnancy out.
Use your head and imagination and stop following the traditions of the ancestors.
Declare one afternoon “Afternoon Of Kisses” and spend time kissing each other’s body for long. You’ll be amazed at the new things you will learn.
6) 📺🌹SEX CONCERTS
What makes the bedroom life of many couples so dull and uninteresting is lack of introduction of new ideas.
Sometimes, bring music into your sex life. Get music playing and make love to the beat of the song or the rhythm of the instruments.
Wow, this means you can dance sexually! You can dance in bed! One of my unreleased love songs in English speaks about this.
📺🌹In conclusion, know that sexual intimacy is meant to be daily. Use the knowledge you’ve got from this teaching and your marriage will walk into a glorious season of sexual superabundance!
When you’re in this season, extramarital affairs will stink to you as it indeed should!📺🌹
💕❤️ TONIGHT’S ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM:
Reread today’s devotional piece just before bedtime. Discuss what you have read. And together, plan how to ACT on the teaching.
✝️ BE BORN AGAIN TODAY!!!
If you’re not yet born again, what an opportunity you have right now!
Please, pray AND request Jesus Christ to come into your heart and save you from your Sins and He will.
Please, don’t delay! Receive Him Today!(John 1:12) just before bedtime and discuss it.
✝️ BE BORN AGAIN TODAY!!!
If you’re not yet born again, what an opportunity you have right now!
Please, pray AND request Jesus Christ to come into your heart and save you from your Sins and He will.
Please, delay! Receive Him Today!(John 1:12)