🍞🥞🥪🍗🍖TO HAVE AND TO HOLD

​🍞On the day God joined you and your spouse in marriage, He wholeheartedly gave them to you to have, to hold, to keep, and to enjoy as your covenant lover, for as long as you are both alive.

🍞​He also gave you the means of holding and keeping them. This means is not brute force or coercion, threats or intimidation, and neither is it subjugation or diabolism(sorcery). That means is the wisdom, understanding, and knowledge (WUK) that are hidden in the pages of His Word, the Bible. The wisdom, understanding, and knowledge from God’s Word will enable you to keep and enjoy your mate exclusively.

🍞🥞🥪🍗🍖​A FULL STOMACH, A FULL APPETITE
​Our anchor scripture is one of those verses of the Bible that presents you with the wisdom, understanding, and knowledge for keeping your spouse far away from infidelity.

🍞​The first part of that verse says:
“The full soul loatheth an honeycomb” (KJV). Exactly what is it saying? To know what it is saying, it is important that you understand the phrase “the full soul” as well as the meaning of the word “loathe.”

🥞​”The full soul” means a person who has eaten to their full satisfaction—someone who is sated.

🥪​”Loathe” means: an intense disgust, aversion, and hatred for something or someone. So, what that half-verse is saying this: he who has eaten a hearty meal and is fully satisfied feels disgust, hatred, or aversion even for honey, which is the sweetest thing. They feel a revulsion and not attraction when offered honey. Why? Because they have fed fully on something by far better, richer, and more nourishing than honey. After all, we all know that honey is not a meal; it is a mere sweetener.

🍗​The wisdom in that half-verse is this: if you want your spouse to develop a strong revulsion, a deep hatred, and an intense disgust for extramarital affairs, then thoroughly and extravagantly feed them with condensed and rich sexual intimacy in your marriage. Right in your home, consciously overfeed them with a diversity and variety of sexual thrills, so much so that when they are outside the home for business or anything else, they are so overfed that there are no cravings left in them for the body of another person of the opposite gender.

🍞🥞🥪🍗🍖​THE CHRISTMAS OF 2023
​I remember the Christmas of 2023. My wife had bred about eight chickens at her station and brought them home for the yuletide. They were so fat they could hardly walk. I had never seen such fat chickens before. They were so heavy! She had fed them extravagantly at her station and continued to do so even after bringing them home. When they arrived at our home, none of them was interested in moving around to find food. Why? They were fully stuffed, and they were sure that the feast would continue. This is how spouses should feed each other sexually in marriage. Make every time of sexual intimacy a feast and a festival of sexual celebration.

🍞🥞🥪🍗🍖​GRACIOUSNESS AND STRENGTH
​Another scripture that will help you hold, keep, and enjoy your spouse exclusively is Proverbs 11:16. Go on and read it:
​”A gracious woman retaineth honour: and strong men retain riches.” (Proverbs 11:16)
🍞​What are the secrets this verse is presenting to us? It presents the “powers” with which the honour and riches of marriage can be securely retained, preserved, and kept for your exclusive enjoyment.

🥞​It is advisable that each spouse use both “powers”: Graciousness and Strength.

🍞🥞🥪🍗🍖​GRACIOUSNESS
​The first part of that verse says:
“A gracious woman retaineth honour.” Applied to marriage, it means a gracious spouse will retain the honours that marriage has bestowed on them. One of those honours is the exclusive privilege of enjoying your marriage partner.

🍞​Now, what does it mean to be gracious? To be gracious means to be kind, courteous, and compassionate. In a nutshell, graciousness is about having a good, warm, and loving character or personality.

🥞​Do you know that many have fallen into infidelity because of the sour, cruel, and merciless character of their partner? So, it is not only a matter of being readily available for intimacy. How is your character in general? When you are sweet, kind, courteous, and compassionate, it makes your spouse want to be in your presence. But when you are cruel, mean, domineering, inconsiderate, and brutal, they would prefer to stay far away from you.

🍞🥞🥪🍗🍖​DIVINE LOVE: THE GREATEST POWER THAT RETAINS THE RICHES OF MATRIMONY
​The strength to retain the riches of marriage is not about brawn or muscle power. It is a higher form of strength. This is the strength of unfailing love. It is the power of supreme love, such as Christ demonstrated in His love for the twelve disciples, ensuring that none was lost to the Pharisees, the Sadducees, and the Jewish leaders who vehemently opposed Him—except Judas. Hear what Jesus said to the Father:
​”While I was with them in the world, I kept them in thy name: those that thou gavest me I have kept, and none of them is lost, but the son of perdition; that the scripture might be fulfilled.” (John 17:12)

🍞​In marriage, it is your duty to demonstrate a consistently strong and intense love that makes your mate see no sense whatsoever in walking into infidelity.

🍞🥞🥪🍗🍖​NURSING MOTHERS BREASTFEED, WISE SPOUSES SEXFEED
​There are other scriptures to explore, but a word, they say, is enough for the wise.
🍞​Take it upon yourself to overfeed your spouse whenever they express the desire for sexual intimacy. That is exactly what every nursing mother does: she thoroughly feeds her baby with her breast until it is sated and begins to reject the nipple. Consequently, the baby never crawls about looking for another “mother” to breastfeed it. So also should you be liberal and extravagant in giving sexual and nonsexual love to your mate, and they will never crawl about looking for a side-chick or a side-boy.

🍞🥞🥪🍗🍖​CONCLUSION
​Remember to be gracious to your spouse. And do not forget to demonstrate divine love, just as Christ did, so that none of his disciples was lost except Judas, the son of perdition.
🥞​As you obey all you have read today, your spouse will love you and cleave to you.🍖🍗

💕♥️🩷Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment:
Re-read this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with open and sincere hearts.

 ✝️Altar Call: Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today in genuine repentance. Believe in Him and be saved!

 🌡️🧪⚗️Scientific Info To Boost Your Marriage:
“Water reduces the risk of erectile dysfunction: To maintain a healthy erection, the body needs to pump a healthy volume of blood into the corpus cavernosum, or erectile chambers.
However, a lack of water can get in the way of this since it can reduce blood flow circulating the body’s blood vessels.
When there’s insufficient nutrient-rich blood volume entering the penis, your erectile function will become impaired.
This can occur even if you’re just mildly dehydrated, so it’s best to drink at least a cup of water minutes before participating in sexual intercourse to replenish all your body fluids.
By doing so, you’re producing as much blood volume as you can and decreasing the risk of sexual dysfunction.”

🍞🥞🥪🍖🍗 HALLELUJAH!!!