IN OUR DEVOTIONAL piece for yesterday, we saw that one of the hallmarks of the first LOVEBIRDS(Adam and Eve) was SHAMELESSNESS. They flaunted their NAKEDNESS freely in their HOME: the garden of Eden.

Today, you’re married and you and your spouse are LOVEBIRDS. It’s important you both reclaim the power of SHAMELESSNESS that was lost in Eden and use it in your Home and Marriage.

In our Anchor scripture for today, a truly SHAMELESS Wife sings and expresses her desire for the Kisses of her husband. She openly declared that his sexual performance was more enjoyable and more thrilling to her than Wines! Aren’t the things she said all true? Yes, they’re true. But how many Wives have the gut to say these openly to their husbands today? Very few.

Many Wives are too ashamed to admit to their husbands that they really enjoy sexual intimacy. To them it is unbecoming for a Woman to admit that she loves Sex. What a tragedy! Yet an army of fornicating girls are all over Facebook saying boldly what Wives are ashamed to say to their legitimate husbands because of SHAME! And married men are flocking to those girls in droves!

So many Spouses find it hard to even call the names of each other’s private parts. But it’s St. Augustine who said: “IT IS WRONG FOR US TO BE ASHAMED TO CALL BY THEIR NAMES, THE THINGS THAT GOD WAS NOT ASHAMED TO CREATE.”

In this new year, be bold like the Wife in our Anchor scripture and speak plainly with your Spouse on matters of your mutual love lives.

It’s time to be SHAMELESS like the Original Couple in Eden who spoke and acted shamelessly.

Shamefulness with your Spouse makes your love lives short of what God intended. It takes the spark out of it. For instance if you desire Sex with your Mate stop beating about the bush and using euphemisms. Say it as it is: “My Sweet, Sweet Husband. Come on now… I’m feeling really horny. Come, my love…I want to fuck you. I wanna “Fuckhandle, Fuckpamper” my Sweet, Sexy Husband” That’s direct. And no body will arrest you for it. More importantly, it triggers desire in your husband, because the ears are indirect “sexual organs.” Now, compare that with:
“Eh, Eh… Daddy Mirabella… Is it not time for us to sleep together? The last time was six weeks ago.” Can you see the difference? The first is Hot and Inviting, while the the second is cold or at best lukewarm and dull.

A SHORT PRAYER
💞 Heavenly Father, thank You for all you’ve taught us today.
💞We fiercely reject SHAME AND SHYNESS in our Love Lives as a Couple. We reclaim the SHAMELESSNESS which you gave to the first couple.
💞 Thank You Father. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen.

❤️ IMMEDIATE ONE FLESH ACTION
Happy First Weekend of the Year 2024!

Tonight: Wife, you’ll initiate Sex using direct approach. Say it as it is. Don’t beat about the bush. After all, it’s your marriage and he’s your husband.

And husband, respond rightly to encourage her to initiate another time; until she’s used to initiating Sexual Intimacy in your union.

It’s time to break the notion that it’s the Husband that must always initiate Sex in marriage.

HAPPY NEW MARRIAGE !