THE COMPONENT OF LOVE CALLED “FASCINATION”!
IF YOU’RE LIKE MOST, THEN YOU DIDN’T FALL IN LOVE with your Spouse and marry them just because they were merely male or female. Certain distinct and definite qualities in them fascinated and drew you towards them. You saw hundreds of men/women but your heart stuck to the man or woman that’s now your partner […]
DON’T STOP BEING IN LOVE
THE NEW TESTAMENT MODEL GIVEN FOR MARRIED COUPLES TO FOLLOW OR EMULATE in their marital relationship is the relationship of Christ and the Church. This is why God commands husbands to love their wives supremely just as Christ loves the Church; while the wives should submit themselves to their husbands in EVERYTHING just as the […]
INSUBORDINATION TO YOUR HUSBAND WILL COST YOU MORE YOU’RE READY TO PAY
IN OUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE PASSAGE ABOVE, King Ahasuerus respectfully sent a powerful and honourable delegation to his wife, Queen Vashti, requesting her to come and display her beauty to his royal guests. If he had sent eunuchs or slaves to call her, perhaps she could have complained of being invited disrespectfully. But the king sent […]
WHERE ARE THE UNROMANTIC HUSBANDS?
IN OUR DAY, MANY WIVES COMPLAIN THAT THEIR HUSBANDS ARE UNROMANTIC and their Men in turn resist, insisting that a Man needn’t be romantic. Now, the question is who is right amongst the two? Should a husband be romantic? Please, pay close attention! Right from the beginning in Eden, Marriage was a romantic relationship. The […]
HOW TO BE A SUCCESSFUL CHRISTIAN HUSBAND
IN MARRIAGE, THE HUSBAND IS THE HEAD OF the wife and the wife is to submit to him the same way she does to GOD. Unfortunately, some husbands see this as a license to subjugate, dominate and afflict the woman. Any husband who does so isn’t only sinning but drawing divine judgement upon himself. Sir, […]
MADAM, YOU NEED TO WAKE UP AND UPGRADE
ONE OF THE REASONS DELILAHS AND JEZEBELS ARE STILL SUCCEEDING in breaking up Marriages and homes is because most housewives are romantically and sexually traditional, laizerfair and laid-back. They’re contented that they’ve wedded, wear a wedding ring and have a change of name. It all ends there. Alas, they’re neither desirous nor ambitious for a […]
THE FOOD OF MARRIED LOVERS
I WAS ONLY A NEW CONVERT AND IN MY EARLY TWENTIES when I began reading in christian literature the statistics of divorces in the United States and some other western countries. I read about solid evangelical preachers suddenly throwing all caution to the wind and divorcing their wives. And as I grew older in age […]
ATTAINING YOUR FULL STATURES AS MARRIED LOVERS
I DON’T KNOW HOW YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE met, but let’s assume it was at the Government Hospital as each of you was on a visit to loved ones who happened to be in the same Ward. One thing led to another and you exchanged contacts. And amazingly, you both felt the strong pull of […]
“THUNDERSTORM” AND “THE GREAT OGBUNIGWE”
I WAS JUST WAKING UP TO LIFE AND only six years old when it happened. A highly promising young man who was apparently on his way to becoming a Billionaire had just died and his family returned from the big city to the village. Then the bad news filtered in: he was killed by a […]
FORGIVING ONE ANOTHER COUNTLESSLY AND WHOLEHEARTEDLY
I WAS BARELY SIX MONTHS OLD IN CHRIST, WHEN I HEARD a far older Believer relate in fellowship during “Testimony Time” how himself and his wife gave each other “the silent treatment” for days running. In my entire life as an unbeliever, I hadn’t heard of such a thing let alone seeing it practiced any […]