LOVING YOUR WIFE AND TREATING HER LIKE THE MAJESTIC QUEEN THAT SHE TRULY IS
OF ALL THE CREATED THINGS THAT HAD BREATH in their nostrils, only Adam was made without his own female. God wanted him to first experience loneliness and the lack of a companion; so that when eventually he had one, he would highly esteem her, love her and appreciate her. Towards the end of Adam’s bachelorhood, […]
HONOURING EACH OTHER IN MARRIAGE (PT. 2)
ONE OF THE REASONS WHY THERE’S DISCORD AND disharmony in very many christian marriages is because our practice of christian life in the home and especially in the bedroom is faulty. In other words, we profess that we are children of God but don’t demonstrate that profession consistently in our relationship with our Spouse. For […]
HONOURING EACH OTHER IN MARRIAGE
HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN A GATHERING where the State Governor wasn’t expected but somehow showed up? If he came in the middle of the programme, as soon as the leaders of the function are aware of his presence everything is paused for a while. Activity immediately shifts for the next ten minutes to announcing […]
YOUR VOICE: A GREAT INSTRUMENT FOR RAINING LOVE UPON YOUR MARRIAGE
KNOWING AHEAD OF TIME THAT OUR GENERATION would be bankrupt of the knowledge of the lovely arts of romantic love in Marriage, God graciously gave us the Song of Solomon to guide and instruct us. When you read the Song of Solomon, you see a seemingly endless outpouring of love as the Spouses copiously express […]
SPOUSES: TOTAL LOVERS AND DAILY LOVERS
OUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE IS THE CONFESSION of a lady who had caught a revelation of who her marriage partner was in her life: HER BELOVED AND HER FRIEND. Not only a husband. Indeed, there’s nothing wrong with the title HUSBAND. Neither is anything wrong with the name WIFE. But the actual realities of marriage is […]
ARE YOU CANNIBALIZING YOUR SPOUSE?
YESTERDAY, WE LOOKED AT “Fascination”, an important element of romantic love in Marriage. Today, we’re looking at another and it is “LOYALTY”. The Britannica online dictionary defines “Loyalty” as: “A FAITHFULNESS THAT IS STEADFAST IN THE FACE OF ANY TEMPTATION TO RENOUNCE, DESERT, OR BETRAY.” Looking at the definition of LOYALTY above, it’s apparent that […]
THE COMPONENT OF LOVE CALLED “FASCINATION”!
IF YOU’RE LIKE MOST, THEN YOU DIDN’T FALL IN LOVE with your Spouse and marry them just because they were merely male or female. Certain distinct and definite qualities in them fascinated and drew you towards them. You saw hundreds of men/women but your heart stuck to the man or woman that’s now your partner […]
DON’T STOP BEING IN LOVE
THE NEW TESTAMENT MODEL GIVEN FOR MARRIED COUPLES TO FOLLOW OR EMULATE in their marital relationship is the relationship of Christ and the Church. This is why God commands husbands to love their wives supremely just as Christ loves the Church; while the wives should submit themselves to their husbands in EVERYTHING just as the […]
INSUBORDINATION TO YOUR HUSBAND WILL COST YOU MORE YOU’RE READY TO PAY
IN OUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE PASSAGE ABOVE, King Ahasuerus respectfully sent a powerful and honourable delegation to his wife, Queen Vashti, requesting her to come and display her beauty to his royal guests. If he had sent eunuchs or slaves to call her, perhaps she could have complained of being invited disrespectfully. But the king sent […]
WHERE ARE THE UNROMANTIC HUSBANDS?
IN OUR DAY, MANY WIVES COMPLAIN THAT THEIR HUSBANDS ARE UNROMANTIC and their Men in turn resist, insisting that a Man needn’t be romantic. Now, the question is who is right amongst the two? Should a husband be romantic? Please, pay close attention! Right from the beginning in Eden, Marriage was a romantic relationship. The […]