HOW TO BE A SUCCESSFUL CHRISTIAN HUSBAND
IN MARRIAGE, THE HUSBAND IS THE HEAD OF the wife and the wife is to submit to him the same way she does to GOD. Unfortunately, some husbands see this as a license to subjugate, dominate and afflict the woman. Any husband who does so isn’t only sinning but drawing divine judgement upon himself. Sir, […]
MADAM, YOU NEED TO WAKE UP AND UPGRADE
ONE OF THE REASONS DELILAHS AND JEZEBELS ARE STILL SUCCEEDING in breaking up Marriages and homes is because most housewives are romantically and sexually traditional, laizerfair and laid-back. They’re contented that they’ve wedded, wear a wedding ring and have a change of name. It all ends there. Alas, they’re neither desirous nor ambitious for a […]
THE FOOD OF MARRIED LOVERS
I WAS ONLY A NEW CONVERT AND IN MY EARLY TWENTIES when I began reading in christian literature the statistics of divorces in the United States and some other western countries. I read about solid evangelical preachers suddenly throwing all caution to the wind and divorcing their wives. And as I grew older in age […]
ATTAINING YOUR FULL STATURES AS MARRIED LOVERS
I DON’T KNOW HOW YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE met, but let’s assume it was at the Government Hospital as each of you was on a visit to loved ones who happened to be in the same Ward. One thing led to another and you exchanged contacts. And amazingly, you both felt the strong pull of […]
“THUNDERSTORM” AND “THE GREAT OGBUNIGWE”
I WAS JUST WAKING UP TO LIFE AND only six years old when it happened. A highly promising young man who was apparently on his way to becoming a Billionaire had just died and his family returned from the big city to the village. Then the bad news filtered in: he was killed by a […]
FORGIVING ONE ANOTHER COUNTLESSLY AND WHOLEHEARTEDLY
I WAS BARELY SIX MONTHS OLD IN CHRIST, WHEN I HEARD a far older Believer relate in fellowship during “Testimony Time” how himself and his wife gave each other “the silent treatment” for days running. In my entire life as an unbeliever, I hadn’t heard of such a thing let alone seeing it practiced any […]
GODLINESS AND YOUR LOVE LIFE IN MARRIAGE
LONG BEFORE OURS, THERE HAVE BEEN GENERATIONS OF MEN AND WOMEN who, unfortunately, had no biblical understanding of Marriage. As soon as the wives had children, they shifted their attention and affection from their husbands to the children and the man suddenly found himself locked out of the corridors of the palace of her love. […]
NO GRANDFATHER AND GRANDMOTHER IN MARRIAGE; JUST TWO SIZZLING LOVERS IN AGELESS LOVE!
VERY MANY YEARS AGO , WE HAD A MARRIAGE SEMINAR in a certain Church. On the front pew of the middle row sat two wizened and wrinkle faced oldwives who looked like they had come straight to the program from their farms. By the time we began teaching, I observed that they were making faces […]
IN YOUR MARRIAGE: ARE YOU CARING AND ARE YOU SHARING?
LIFE IS SHORT AND MARRIAGE IS A PRIVILEGE. It’s a blessing to be legitimately One-Flesh with someone of the opposite sex, live under the same roof and love each other till when the privilege will be finally withdrawn at Death. A lot of times, however, our idea about expressing love to our Mate is just […]
STAY ON THE SUNNY SIDE OF YOUR SPOUSE’S LIFE
HAVE YOU EVER READ THE STORY OF a couple who angrily went to court seeking the dissolution of their Marriage? Well, may be you haven’t but I’ve read several of them. They’d stand, each of them stern faced, determined to have their union of twenty years or more, suddenly and carelessly dissolved. And when asked […]