DON’T LET YOUR MARRIAGE GO SOUR
EVERY GOOD THING THAT GOD HAS GRACIOUSLY given you requires regular maintenance. This includes your Marriage. Like professionally baked Wedding Cakes, good Marriages have standard tastes, flavour and fragrance. If you’re a good Baker, just a whiff of the “fragrance” of a poorly baked Cake tells you everything: It’s the product of a learner. You […]
PATIENCE IN MARRIAGE
RIGHT FROM THE ONSET OF EVERY MARRIAGE, IT’S IMPORTANT that the two Spouses have enough maturity to give one another space and time to grow, transform and over time, attain their full stature as husband or wife. One of the sorest regrets of many who have caved in to the thoughts that prompted them to […]
DEALING WITH MISTAKES IN MARRIAGE
PEACE AND TRANQUILITY ARE MISSING IN MOST MARRIAGES because Spouses go into roles that aren’t theirs in the relationship. In marriage, your Spouse will make mistakes. Sometimes, very costly mistakes. You must, however, understand that you are not in their life to play GOD and commence judgement on them. This is one of the mistakes […]
TRUTHS THAT WILL BOOST YOUR BEDROOM LIFE
A FEW YEARS BACK, A HOUSEWIFE CAME for counseling over difficulties in enjoying the Bedroom aspect of her marriage. She wasn’t pleased with her husband’s lack of confidence in that aspect of their union.She went on to mention another housewife, who, according to her, told her that if there’s anything she loves in marriage, it’s […]
TRUE LOVERS ARE GRATEFUL PEOPLE
DEAR WIFE, NO MATTER HOW UNKNOWN OR insignificant your Husband may seem in the society, hold him dear to yourself. Why? Because he is your Head, your King and your President. True, there’s a President in your nation but does he know you? If you die today, will the President hear about it? Of course, […]
HOW TO AVOID MARITAL BACKSLIDING
AS A SERVANT OF GOD SENT TO TEACH MARRIAGE, I ENDLESSLY cherish the Song of Solomon. It’s a precious scriptural resource that depicts the beauty of pure and monogamous love. It’s on record that in the second century, one of the greatest Jewish teachers and mystic, Rabbi Akiba Ben Joseph, said this about the Song […]
MARRIED COUPLES AND THE USE OF FASTING AND PRAYER
EVEN AS AN ORDINARY “RECRUIT” brought to the Palace for the contest that would lead to the selection of the next Queen, Esther had 7 Maidens attending to her. You can only imagine how many Maidens must have been at her beck and call as soon as she became the Wife, Queen and Empress of […]
THE WIFE AS AN ADULT WOMAN
AT THE END OF THE SIXTH DAY OF CREATION, GOD LOOKED CLOSELY at all that He had made and they were not just good but VERY GOOD! (Genesis 1: 31) That included the form of all He had made at the time of His assessment as well as their form in the future when they […]
THERE’S NO WOMAN QUITE LIKE YOUR WIFE
WHEN AS A HUSBAND YOU SENSE your romantic ardour for your wife waning or declining because she’s getting older and you’re instead thinking that younger women are better; know that somedark, sinister and merciless forces are quietly working on your mind and subtly seeking to drag you into a deep pit for destruction. Sir, when […]
ARE YOU A WANDERING SPOUSE?
THERE NEVER WOULD HAVE BEEN THE SAD AND UNFORTUNATE INCIDENT OF THE ADULTERY BETWEEN KING DAVID AND BATHSHEBA, if the revered Patriarch, King David, had been where he ought to be at the beginning of the year when kings went forth to battle(2 Samuel 11:1). He was a mighty and unequalled Warrior in his time […]