ROMANTIC PASSIVITY IN MARRIAGE

MANY MARRIAGES ARE COLD BECAUSE the Spouses are maritally passive and largely inactive. And in some of such marriages, this goes on for whole weeks and sometimes months! Such a coexistence negates or makes ineffective God’s purpose for instituting Marriage. It also creates a conducive environment for thoughts of extramarital affairs to spring up silently […]

YOUR LOVE LIFE: DESIGNED FOR MONOGAMY

WHEN GOD HELD THE RIB HE EXTRACTED FROM ADAM’S SIDE, it was very easy for Him to have turned it into twenty women. After all, His Son, Jesus Christ, multiplied five loaves and two fishes to feed five thousand people, thousands of years after. So, it was very easy for the Father to have made […]

HIGHLY ESTEEM YOUR SPOUSE AND TREAT THEM DELICATELY

IN OUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE FOR TODAY, God’s Word declares a wife as “A GOOD THING” and a mark and evidence of divine favour. When God rates something as GOOD, just know that it’s not merely good: it’s excellent, superlative and the very best. It’s unique, unequalled and unsurpassed. And that’s exactly what your marriage partner […]

THE BEST WINE FROM THE ROOF OF HER MOUTH

WINE OCCUPIES A CENTRAL PLACE IN marriage ceremonies. Wine holds a celebration together and creates it’s atmosphere, mood and ambience. While the music gets people on their feet dancing, it’s the wine that get them sipping, talking, conversing and bantering. Wine “oils” mouths, loosens jaws and drives dullness far away. All Spouses need to understand […]

“REJECTION” IN MARRIAGE

OUR SCRIPTURE PASSAGE ABOVE presents the story of the rejection of Jephthah the Gileadite by his brothers and how that unjust act turned him into a rebel and a miscreant. Today, many Spouses who were once sober, quite and nice have changed because of rejection from their Mate. They concluded that they’re only tolerated but […]

YOUR MARRIAGE AND THE TROUBLES OF LIFE

ONE OF OUR NIGERIAN CHURCH CHORUSES THAT I HAVE FOUND PARTIALLY FAULTY is the one that says: “Me I No Go Suffer, I No Go Beg For Bread…” It’s scripturally half correct and half wrong.Sure enough, God’s Word says that the righteous shall not be forsaken neither shall his children take to the streets, bowls […]

SMILE: SOUND MANAGEMENT IN LOVELIFE’S MOMENTS OF ECSTASY

JUST IMAGINE THE EARTH BEING A PLANET OF NO SOUNDS with everyone and everything moving noiselessly. It would be such a mournful and eerie world. But God in His wisdom made sounds part of our world and it’s just so beautiful. As our anchor scripture for today tells us, there are many kinds of sounds […]

SPOUSES: AGENTS OF KINGDOM EXPANSION

IN OUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE FOR TODAY, CHRISTIANS are commanded to serve in the ministry of HOSPITALITY. Why this command? It’s because God is always sending out His agents to serve in His kingdom projects at different points on Earth and He would need your home to host them as a point of physical lodging and […]

WALKING IN HEAVENLY LOVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE

IN OUR DEVOTIONAL MESSAGE for June 27, 2025 titled “WHAT NAMES DO YOU CALL YOUR SPOUSE?” we saw that the man in that day’s anchor scripture called his lady four names: “My Sister, My Love, My Dove, My Undefiled”. As wonderful as it is to call each other beautiful names of endearment, it’s of extreme […]

LEARNING HOW TO SPEAK AS SWEETHEARTS

I ONCE HEARD OF A COUPLE WHO QUARRELLED at the top of their voices one late evening not minding the fact that their neighbours in the small housing estate were hearing them. As they hurled abuses at each other, one said something like:“Look at your Father with his bulging eyeballs as if he’s an “Owl-Witch” […]