LESSONS FROM A NEW YEAR GIFT

It was January 9, 2008. I’d visited an amiable couple whose local Church had hosted one of Maximum Marriage Ministries’ Seminars in the previous year. When I was to leave, they presented me half a bag of high quality foreign rice and assigned their chauffeur to drive me home. I expressed my gratitude and left. […]

BETTER THAN APHRODISIACS

There are two kinds of lifestyle on earth: the lifestyle of Righteousness and the lifestyle of Sin. Our anchor scripture makes very clear what each leads to. While Righteousness is so strong it can lift up a whole nation and set it on high, Sin does the opposite. It brings an entire country to ruin, […]

RIGHTEOUSNESS IN THE BEDROOM

DEAR SPOUSES, IT’S VERY IMPORTANT for you to understand that you do not own your love life gifts. Your question at this point may be: “What constitutes my love life gifts?” Your love life gifts consists of your sexuality, passion, sex drive, beauty, handsomeness and indeed all the romantic and sexual qualities in you that […]

DON’T BE A WASTER OF LOVE POTENTIALS

โค๏ธ๐ŸŒนSimply put, our anchor scripture is saying that the man or woman who is lazy in their responsibility is at the same time a waster of resources! โค๏ธ๐ŸŒนWhen we bring this verse to the arena of marriage, it means wastage of the potentials God placed in them for the successful performance of their marital duties! […]

REMEMBERING MISS STENT!

I ENTERED SECONDARY SCHOOL with an apathy for Mathematics. This was because, right from primary school, there was a widespread notion among children that Arithmetic was a very difficult subject. So, very many kids believed that since it was “a difficult subject”, there was no use bothering one’s self too much about it. Of course, […]

A LIFE OF DEEP INTIMACY (PT. 3)

๐Ÿ“บ๐ŸŒนOUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE for today shows that romantic love and sexual intimacy between husband and wife should be “AT ALL TIMES” and “ALWAYS”! Not weekly or fortnightly. Or worse still, monthly. The mistaken and wrong notion amongst most Spouses is that sexual intimacy is for pregnancy and making babies. But that’s completely incorrect. ๐Ÿ“บ๐ŸŒนSexual Intimacy […]

YOUR SPOUSE IS EXCELLENT

๐Ÿ†WE LIVE in God’s world. ๐Ÿ†And it’s a place where everything was fully set, ever before we were even born. ๐Ÿ†Our anchor scripture shows that God reviewed His work at the end of the six days of creative labour and found that everything He’d made was not just good but VERY GOOD! And since then, […]

A LIFE OF DEEP INTIMACY (PT.2)

๐Ÿ๐ŸŒน๐ŸฏIN THE FIRST PART of this teaching, we saw among other beautiful things, that a personal prayer life in the closet is one of our means of deep intimacy with God. ๐Ÿ๐ŸŒน๐ŸฏWe also saw that the equivalence of that in Marriage is Sexual Intimacy with one’s Spouse. ๐Ÿ๐ŸŒน๐ŸฏWe also noted that, just as intimacy with […]

MARRIAGE WATCH!

๐ŸŒน๐Ÿ‘’๐ŸŽฉIn Marriage, there’s need for watchfulness and vigilance. This time, not against the devil, but over yourself as a wife or husband. ๐ŸŒน๐Ÿ‘’๐ŸŽฉYou need to watch your tongue, your temper and your reactions during moments of misunderstanding between you and your Spouse. ๐ŸŒน๐Ÿ‘’๐ŸŽฉThere have been several instances in marriages where spouses, just because of a […]

A LIFE OF DEEP INTIMACY

๐ŸA VAST MAJORITY OF COUPLES have a very vague, shallow, dim and hazy view of what marriage is. ๐ŸSir and Ma, Marriage is a covenant union of deep intimacy between a man and a woman who are legitimately married. ๐ŸIt’s the physical equivalent of the relationship between Christ and the Believer. ๐ŸThe Bible says that […]