DON’T LET YOUR EYES DECEIVE YOU!
IN MARRIAGE, DON’T LET YOUR EYES AND FEELINGS mislead you to conclude that your union isn’t worth holding on to. If you do, you’re most likely to regret it sorely; perhaps for the rest of your life. Moses sent twelve men to spy the land of promise. For years these men believed that it was […]
HUSBAND, ARE YOU BRUTAL IN THE MARRIAGE BEDROOM?
A HOUSEWIFE COMPLAINED about her husband’s lovemaking and said: “I FIND HIM RATHER BRUTAL WHEN WE MAKE LOVE IN THE EVENINGS.” Are husband’s reading? Does this give you any clue as to why some wives are no longer interested in “the evening programme”? Sir, sexual intimacy isn’t carpentry, panel beating or worse still, pounding yam […]
THEY SHALL NOT BUILD, AND ANOTHER INHABIT
TODAY, I HEARD A WOMAN SAYING THAT it’s not fair that in Marriage, after a while, they the wives, begin to look older than their husbands while the men are looking younger and even getting more handsome. She felt women are cheated. Her observation is true. Wives age faster than their husbands in many marriages. […]
YOUR DRESSING AS A CHRISTIAN HOUSEWIFE
MAN WAS CREATED FROM THE DUST OF the Earth(Genesis 2:7). In other words, Man was made from raw materials. But when God made the woman, He formed her from the BODY of the Man(Genesis 2:21-22). In other words, He made the Woman from a finished product. Now, can you see the difference? That’s why men […]
IF YOUR WIFE IS THE STAR, DON’T FEEL OUTSHINED! (PT. 2)
YESTERDAY, WE SAW THAT THERE ARE MARRIAGES in which the wife is brighter, smarter and more favoured than the husband and the husband needn’t feel threatened. Now, what should be the attitude of the wife who is evidently making more impact in the home and family than her husband? Firstly, her attitude should be knowledge-based. […]
IF YOUR WIFE IS THE STAR, DON’T FEEL OUTSHINED!
THERE ARE MARRIAGES IN WHICH THE Wife is apparently brighter, smarter, wiser, more favoured and more upwardly mobile than the husband. In such a union, the husband must not feel threatened. Why? Because marriage is never a competition but the blending of two differently gifted lives to make one flesh. Only an unwise man would […]
JOYFUL LOVE AND JOYFUL LIVING IN MARRIAGE
JOY IS ONE OF THE THINGS THAT CHARACTERIZE a genuine love relationship. It characterizes every courtship and should be very much in the couple’s life in Marriage. I remember how joyful and happy I was during my courtship with my wife. After returning from work, I’d look at her pictures that were in my photo […]
BY HIM, THROUGH HIM AND FOR HIM
I HAVE SHARED BOTH ONLINE AND ONSITE AT Marriage Seminars/Summits, how long ago in 1972, a generous Farmer brought my Dad a huge basketful gift of matured and luscious snails and we rejected it because traditionally, we don’t eat snail meat in my place. When in 1981, after getting born again, I ate the “forbidden […]
PUT THEM IN REMEMBRANCE (PT. 2)
YESTERDAY, WE LOOKED AT A NUMBER of things including who the Wife is to her husband. Today, we’re considering who the Husband is to the wife. (1) WHO IS THE HUSBAND TO HIS WIFE?Our theme scripture tells us that the husband is THE HEAD OF THE WIFE. “For the husband is the head of the […]
PUT THEM IN REMEMBRANCE (PT. 1)
ONE OF THE DUTIES OF THE MINISTER of God’s Word is to, from time to time, remind God’s flock entrusted to his care, of those things they have been taught in the past. Why? Because as human beings, they have the tendency to forget vital facts, information and doctrines they’d been taught. In a neighbourhood […]