BECOME CEDAR SPOUSES!

IN OUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE, the Righteous is compared to two illustrious trees: the Date Palm tree(Phoenix Dacty-Lifera) and the Cedar tree. We’re, however, looking at the Cedar tree this morning. God says that the Righteous shall GROW like the Cedar in Lebanon. The Cedar tree has a very peculiar mode of growth. For every 10 […]
KILLING YOUR MARRIAGE SOFTLY

AS PART OF MY PREPARATIONS for the recording of my debut album in 1985, I engaged the services of a Lagosbased high ranking, international class Singer to come on the production as it’s solo Backup Vocalist. On my first visit to her, she mentioned a Song I’d heard on radio but didn’t know the title. […]
HUSBAND, EMULATE CHRIST IN HIS SANCTIFICATION OF THE CHURCH

A CAREFUL STUDY AND MEDITATION on our anchor scripture passage tells you that Christ doesn’t expect the best of character from the Church upon getting saved. He therefore goes to work in removing the spots, blemishes, wrinkles and other things that disfigure or deform it. How does He go about this enormous work? What does […]
THE HUSBAND AS OVERSEER AND SUPERINTENDENT

IN MARRIAGE, THE POSITION OF THE HUSBAND as Head of the Wife is to be carried out by closely emulating Christ, the Head of the Church. In 1 Peter 2: 25, Christ is referred to as the Bishop of our Souls. “For ye were as sheep going astray; but are now returned unto the Shepherd […]
THE ENJOYABLE HUSBAND (PT. 4)

DEAR HUSBAND, GOD’S WILL IS THAT YOU BECOME a husband that your wife tremendously enjoys and is happily proud of. According to our anchor scripture, God has made you the Head of your wife in your marriage union. However, it’s important that you understand the kind of Headship you’ve been called to practice in marriage. […]
SEXUAL ABUNDANCE AND PROSPERITY IN MARRIAGE (PT 2)

WHEN YOU KNOW WHO GOD IS, you will understand that He has an ABUNDANCE MINDSET. His Son Jesus Christ also has the ABUNDANCE MINDSET. When He came to planet Earth, His mission wasn’t to give us a LIFE that’s barely enough but one that’s ABUNDANT: “The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to […]
SEXUAL ABUNDANCE AND PROSPERITY IN MARRIAGE (PT. 1)

IT WAS MY PRIVILEGE TO TEACH ON THE SUBJECT OF MARRIAGE at a church conference some time in 2016. A vast majority of the audience was made up of married couples. Only few matured Singles were permitted attendance. When it was “Questions Time”, ALL THE QUESTIONS WITHOUT EXCEPTION WERE ON SEX! Meanwhile, I spoke on […]
BEWARE OF UNCONTROLLED ANGER!

I WAS IN PRIMARY SIX, when the news spread in the town where I lived that a certain man had punished his daughter by putting ground pepper in the poor child’s private part. Just imagine a Father descending so brutishly low as to do what even rapists don’t imagine themselves doing, all because he was […]
HOW TO ENJOY A MUSICAL AND MELODIOUS MARRIAGE

EVEN THOUGH THEY SOUND SOMEHOW ALIKE, the words “Duel” and “Duet” are worlds apart in meaning. While “Duel” means A FIGHT BY TWO, “Duet” on the other hand means A SONG SUNG BY TWO PERSONS. While a “Duel” is ugly and undesirable, a “Duet” is pleasant, desirable and welcome any time. Now, the question I […]
TREATING YOUR MARRIAGE WITH RETREATS

AFTER SIX DAYS OF CREATIVE LABOUR, GOD TOOK A BREAK. Was He tired or stressed out? Not a bit. But He rested because it’s wisdom to do so after an extensive work of making a new planet such as He had done. In the ministry of Christ, He also at a point took the disciples […]