YOU CAN SHAKE YOUR HEAD, LAUGH VERY HARD AT ADULTERY AND WALK AWAY WITHOUT LOOKING BACK!!!
JUST A FEW DAYS AGO(OR WAS IT YESTERDAY?), I read an Online news headline about a married female youth corper committing adultery on the very first day of arrival at the NYSC camp! She had just left her husband, perhaps not up to 48 hours and for her that was too long a time for […]
MAKING YOUR HUSBAND/WIFE ENJOYABLE FOR YOURSELF
HAS IT EVER OCCURED TO YOU that almost all the gifts that God gives first require some work done or preparations made before they can be enjoyed? If you receive a big bag of rice as gift you would be happy because you know how much it costs in the market today. But you also […]
SPOUSES WHO ARE DEEPLY INTIMATE
IT’S ONE THING TO BE LEGITIMATELY MARRIED and quite another to be very close as a couple. Your church marriage certificate fancifully framed and displayed on the sitting room wall; your marriage papers from the courtroom carefully filed and hidden in the bedroom cabinet; double wedding rings on Madam’s finger; the huge oil paintings of […]
SILENCE IN MARRIAGE (PT.2)
IF ONLY WE WOULD LIVE THE CHRIST-LIKE life in every aspect of our marriages, how gloriously serene and full of tranquility our homes and families would be! They would be colonies of heaven on earth! In our first anchor scripture, we see the comportment or behaviour of Christ during one of His toughest times on […]
SILENCE IN MARRIAGE (PT. 1)
SILENCE IS A PRECIOUS GIFT. Sometimes, what your mate needs is just that: silence. Nothing more. According to our first anchor scripture, there is a right time for everything under the heavens including the use of the tongue. Yes, it’s absolutely true that we have our mouths with us all the time but it’s important […]
ORGASMS ARE NO MYSTERIES. GO TO BED WITH YOUR HUSBAND AND PLUCK THEM! (PT.2)
IT DOES NOT MATTER how well endowed you are as a woman. You may be the married lass with the big ass; the beautiful wife with the most shapely and luscious breasts, or the fair lady with the silky skin; yet IF YOU DON’T HAVE THE RIGHT MENTAL ATTITUDE towards sex, much will elude you […]
ORGASMS ARE NO MYSTERIES. GO TO BED WITH YOUR HUSBAND AND PLUCK THEM! (PT.1)
IT WAS EARLY IN THE MORNING. Time was a few minutes past 6:00 AM. I was returning from a night vigil we had in a brother’s house. As I turned into the main road, I saw a man wheeling his bicycle along as he walked; and beside him was a woman I suspected to be […]
A HOLY WOMANIZER. THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT GOD WANTS YOU TO BE! (PT.2)
YESTERDAY, WE SAW THE DICTIONARY’S definition of the word “Womanizer”. It says that a Womanizer is “A man who engages in numerous CASUAL SEXUAL AFFAIRS with women.” So, a Womanizer is a casual sexual affairs seeker who floats from one woman of easy virtue to another. As we also saw yesterday, he is sexually superficial, […]
A HOLY WOMANIZER. THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT GOD WANTS YOU TO BE!
WHEN GOD INSTITUTED SEX IN THE BEGINING, His plan and purpose was that it would be within the confines of Monogamy: the marriage of one man and one wife. Our second anchor scripture declares one of God’s fundamental plans for marriages: Man would leave his parents and CLEAVE UNTO HIS WIFE. The CLEAVING here is […]
WHAT KIND OF HEART HAVE YOU?(PT.2)
IN OUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE , Peter asked the Lord if there is a limit to the number of times one should forgive an erring brother. Jesus’ answer was swift in coming: there is none. It’s a privilege to have a brother in the first place. His offending you is simply the flip side of his […]