MIND YOUR MANNER OF APPROACH!
THE THINGS THAT WILL MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE A GLORIOUS SUCCESS are within your easy reach. They are in the pages of your Bible. One of those things is the way you use your tongue in your marriage. How you talk to your Spouse will determine to a very large extent the amount of peace, tranquility, […]
SHALLOW OR DEEP LOVE, WHICH IS YOURS? (PT. 3)
IN OUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE PASSAGE for today, we see another clear demonstration of Jacob’s unabating, consistent and blazing love for his dear Wife, Rachel. Even though Life’s circumstances had brought three more wives into his life when all he wanted was only one, he refused to allow his love for Rachel to be divided, diluted […]
SHALLOW OR DEEP LOVE, WHICH IS YOURS? (PT. 2/
IN JACOB, WE SEE A HUSBAND WHO INDEED had a very deep love for his wife. Our anchor scripture passage shows that it got to a time when Jacob stopped sexual intimacy with Leah. She didn’t offend him but his overwhelming love for Rachel couldn’t accommodate her. She had breasts , butts and every […]
SHALLOW OR DEEP LOVE, WHICH IS YOURS? (PT. 1)
ONE OF THE BIBLE’S COUPLES whose marriage portrays deep, intensive and unabating love is Jacob and Rachel. Even though it’s true that Jacob was polygamous, the truth remains that he was only so by circumstance and not by choice. So we can learn from his genuine and intense love for his true love and heart-throb, […]
DON’T WATCH YOUR MARRIAGE BECOME A RUSTY JALOPY!
I ONCE RODE IN A NEWLY ACQUIRED JALOPY WITH A COUPLE. All of a sudden and just when it wasn’t expected to stop, it froze in the middle of the road to the embarrassment of the owners who were giving me a ride after a visit to their home. What to do? The husband and […]
FOR THE GOOD OF YOUR MARRIAGE, “DON’T ROB PETER TO PAY PAUL”!
THANK GOD FOR YOUR profession, vocation, business, ministry, etc. It’s a blessing and God wants you to excel therein. But so also does He expect you to be dutiful, faithful, diligent and meticulous in your responsibilities as a Husband or Wife. This is because “The Home Front” is very important to Him. It’s His first […]
BREAKING THE FETTERS OF THE SHAME OF NAKEDNESS IN MARRIAGE
MANY YEARS AGO, A CHRISTIAN LEADER shared with me how he had to plead with his Wife for years to allow him see her full nakedness! In some marriages, it’s not the wife but the husband who wouldn’t let the wife see his nakedness. In such unions, all their sexual intimacy in the bedroom are […]
IS YOURS A SINNERS’ MARRIAGE?
MANY ARE BORN AGAIN, PROPERLY MARRIED AND HOLD KEY POSITIONS IN THEIR LOCAL CHURCHES, yet they practice Sinners’ Marriage. And the most pathetic aspect is that they don’t even know it. In their ignorance, they believe that theirs is a Christian union whereas it just isn’t. Our anchor scripture passage makes it clear that it’s […]
KINDNESS IN MARRIAGE (PT. 1)
TO ENJOY YOUR SPOUSE, you need to DAILY invest KINDNESS in their life. When you don’t spend this virtue on your Mate, your practice of marriage will be weak and faulty; and you’ll wonder why there’s so much harshness and confrontations between you. KINDNESS is like the rays of the Sun. Just as the Sun’s […]
INSTRUCTIONS ON HOW TO LOVE YOUR SPOUSE IN MARRIAGE (PT. 2)
AFTER GOD INSTITUTED MARRIAGE IN EDEN, He didn’t deem it necessary to instruct the first couple on Love, Submission, Faithfulness in Sexual Intimacy, etc. This was because they had an inborn knowledge of how to conduct themselves in Marriage. But after the Fall took place, all that knowledge was forever lost. Today, Spouses have to […]