ADDRESSING SEXUAL DISSATISFACTION AMONG HOUSEWIVES (PT. 1)

ONLY YESTERDAY, I READ A JOURNALIST’S report written after doing a survey on the level of sexual satisfaction among married women. From his report, only about 25 percent of wives experience sexual fulfillment in marriage. Even though many will not agree with his finding, I staunchly do, having been in a ministry that deals with […]
YOUR BODY AS A LOVE GIFT FOR YOUR SPOUSE

LET’S JUST IMAGINE THAT YOU HAVE A BABY that’s now one year old and looks so beautiful everyone that visits your home or sees her in church admire her and want to carry her. And then one day, one of your close friends visits and as she’s carrying your vivacious girl she says again and […]
THE COUPLE AS KINGDOM LABOURERS (PT 2)

YESTERDAY, WE SAW HOW A COUPLE at Shunem joined hands and in oneness and agreement, used their resources to build a house for the Servant of God, Prophet Elisha. It wasn’t a congregational thing. No pledges were made or redeemed. A couple saw a need and took it upon themselves to meet it and God […]
THE COUPLE AS KINGDOM LABOURERS (PT. 1)

RIGHT FROM THE VERY BEGINNING, MARRIAGE was instituted to enhance, promote and facilitate God’s divine agenda on earth. Of course, God gave marriage to provide love, companionship and other blessings for the couple but beyond that, there’s a larger purpose for them to fulfill and that’s God’s plan: “And God blessed them, and God said […]
YOU CAN SHAKE YOUR HEAD, LAUGH VERY HARD AT ADULTERY AND WALK AWAY WITHOUT LOOKING BACK!!!

JUST A FEW DAYS AGO(OR WAS IT YESTERDAY?), I read an Online news headline about a married female youth corper committing adultery on the very first day of arrival at the NYSC camp! She had just left her husband, perhaps not up to 48 hours and for her that was too long a time for […]
MAKING YOUR HUSBAND/WIFE ENJOYABLE FOR YOURSELF

HAS IT EVER OCCURED TO YOU that almost all the gifts that God gives first require some work done or preparations made before they can be enjoyed? If you receive a big bag of rice as gift you would be happy because you know how much it costs in the market today. But you also […]
SPOUSES WHO ARE DEEPLY INTIMATE

IT’S ONE THING TO BE LEGITIMATELY MARRIED and quite another to be very close as a couple. Your church marriage certificate fancifully framed and displayed on the sitting room wall; your marriage papers from the courtroom carefully filed and hidden in the bedroom cabinet; double wedding rings on Madam’s finger; the huge oil paintings of […]
SILENCE IN MARRIAGE (PT.2)

IF ONLY WE WOULD LIVE THE CHRIST-LIKE life in every aspect of our marriages, how gloriously serene and full of tranquility our homes and families would be! They would be colonies of heaven on earth! In our first anchor scripture, we see the comportment or behaviour of Christ during one of His toughest times on […]
SILENCE IN MARRIAGE (PT. 1)

SILENCE IS A PRECIOUS GIFT. Sometimes, what your mate needs is just that: silence. Nothing more. According to our first anchor scripture, there is a right time for everything under the heavens including the use of the tongue. Yes, it’s absolutely true that we have our mouths with us all the time but it’s important […]
ORGASMS ARE NO MYSTERIES. GO TO BED WITH YOUR HUSBAND AND PLUCK THEM! (PT.2)

IT DOES NOT MATTER how well endowed you are as a woman. You may be the married lass with the big ass; the beautiful wife with the most shapely and luscious breasts, or the fair lady with the silky skin; yet IF YOU DON’T HAVE THE RIGHT MENTAL ATTITUDE towards sex, much will elude you […]