DEALING WITH SUSPICION IN MARRIAGE
NO MATTER HOW POPULAR, SOCIABLE AND WELL LOVED you were before marriage, once you’re married you must understand that you are now a new person, have a new status and are in a unique covenant relationship. Whereas you were “Miss Popularity” whom almost all the boys freely hugged, embraced, touched and held by the hand […]
THE UNFORTUNATE AND WEIRD SIDE-CHICK MENTALITY
APOSTLE PAUL SAID, when he was a child he spoke as a child, reasoned as a child but when he became a Man, he put away childish things (1 Corinthians 3:11). Only a child would think of eating a newly hatched chick or even a one week old chick. To him, it’s a beautiful bird […]
YOUR LOVE LIFE CAN TESTIFY FOR GOD!
WHEN JESUS SPOKE THE WORDS IN MATTHEW 5: 16,“Let YOUR LIGHT so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven”, the Light He meant isn’t the handheld torchlight, a kerosene lantern, a shinning fluorescent tube or even a blazing electric floodlight lamp. The light He […]
GODLINESS IS PROFITABLE IN THE BEDROOM LIFE
IT’S TRUE THAT ALL HUMAN BEINGS LIVE IN the same world, are exposed to the same climate, feed from the produce of the same earth, yet it’s also very true that they are not the same. The godly and the ungodly may look alike but surely they are not the same. The body of the […]
DON’T LET YOUR MARRIAGE GO SOUR
EVERY GOOD THING THAT GOD HAS GRACIOUSLY given you requires regular maintenance. This includes your Marriage. Like professionally baked Wedding Cakes, good Marriages have standard tastes, flavour and fragrance. If you’re a good Baker, just a whiff of the “fragrance” of a poorly baked Cake tells you everything: It’s the product of a learner. You […]
PATIENCE IN MARRIAGE
RIGHT FROM THE ONSET OF EVERY MARRIAGE, IT’S IMPORTANT that the two Spouses have enough maturity to give one another space and time to grow, transform and over time, attain their full stature as husband or wife. One of the sorest regrets of many who have caved in to the thoughts that prompted them to […]
DEALING WITH MISTAKES IN MARRIAGE
PEACE AND TRANQUILITY ARE MISSING IN MOST MARRIAGES because Spouses go into roles that aren’t theirs in the relationship. In marriage, your Spouse will make mistakes. Sometimes, very costly mistakes. You must, however, understand that you are not in their life to play GOD and commence judgement on them. This is one of the mistakes […]
TRUTHS THAT WILL BOOST YOUR BEDROOM LIFE
A FEW YEARS BACK, A HOUSEWIFE CAME for counseling over difficulties in enjoying the Bedroom aspect of her marriage. She wasn’t pleased with her husband’s lack of confidence in that aspect of their union.She went on to mention another housewife, who, according to her, told her that if there’s anything she loves in marriage, it’s […]
TRUE LOVERS ARE GRATEFUL PEOPLE
DEAR WIFE, NO MATTER HOW UNKNOWN OR insignificant your Husband may seem in the society, hold him dear to yourself. Why? Because he is your Head, your King and your President. True, there’s a President in your nation but does he know you? If you die today, will the President hear about it? Of course, […]
HOW TO AVOID MARITAL BACKSLIDING
AS A SERVANT OF GOD SENT TO TEACH MARRIAGE, I ENDLESSLY cherish the Song of Solomon. It’s a precious scriptural resource that depicts the beauty of pure and monogamous love. It’s on record that in the second century, one of the greatest Jewish teachers and mystic, Rabbi Akiba Ben Joseph, said this about the Song […]