(1) STOP THE PRETENCE AND WALK IN THE TRUTH

If we say that we have embraced Christ Who is the Truth and are born of His Spirit, then TRUTH must govern, reign and have dominion in every area of our lives including our marriage bedrooms.

Culturally, it’s believed that women don’t like Sex and that Sex is “men’s thing’. But this is a lie from the pit of hell because God’s Word makes it clear that despite the discomforts of pregnancy and child birth, wives would still desire sexual intimacy with their husbands!(Genesis 3:16). But it’s so unfortunate that many wives give life to this lie in their marriages by pretending not to like Sex and giving their husbands the false impression that Sex isn’t a priority to them. Born again Christian wives are sadly in this number!

Now, let’s just look at it logically: God created your husband and gave him a PENIS that loves to “drill” the vagina, as many as fifteen times a day, if circumstances permit. And then He gives you the wife a VAGINA that hates the Penis or has, at best, a very low desire for the penis. How logical is it ?? God isn’t such a low brain Creator! NEVER!

In Genesis 2: 18, He promised to create for Man a HELPER that would be SUITABLE FOR HIM and this included SEXUAL SUITABILITY. He made the vagina excellently suitable for the Penis. And you think He’ll not give the Woman a suitable sexual appetite that would match her husband’s? God isn’t the Author of mismatches. The blunt truth is: GOD gave the woman a strong and ravenous sexual appetite right from the beginning. SO, EVERY WIFE HAS A STRONG SEX DRIVE THAT’S AS MASSIVE AND AS LARGE AS HER HUSBAND’S! Stop the pretence, housewives! Whenever you feel the itch to fuck your husband’s Penis, don’t beat about the bush. Say so. Take hold of his hand and tell him that you want to make love.
Stop the so-called “lady-like” approach to sex. It’s pride in disguise. For your information, the strange women out there don’t believe in being sexually “lady-like” to the men that come their way. They “super-fuck” the men. Why? To make them forget their bedroom-lazy wives and to cause them to remember to return to them. And of course, most of the men do!

(2). STOP PRETENDING AGAINST YOUR OWN SELF
Wives, I’m not against you. It’s just that I must tell you the hard truth, even though it might hurt your feelings. Kindly bear with me.

A vast majority of you don’t only pretend to your husband that you don’t like sex, you also pretend AGAINST YOURSELF!

You didn’t create yourself, did you? God did and as you well know, He doesn’t make mistakes.
God constructed you such that when your husband is lovingly touching, caressing, kissing, licking and sucking you, you enjoy it. It’s not your fault that you’re enjoying it. Neither is it wrong, sinful or shameful to enjoy it. This is how God created marital sex to be. This is not fornication or adultery but sexual intimacy with your own husband. Its righteous and glorifies God. So why try to suppress your feelings just to pretend that you don’t like Sex? And do you know what? When you suppress the feeling of excitement, it goes down instead of intensifying to become an Orgasm. By suppressing your feelings, you sabotage/abort the orgasm that was forming. And when it’s all over and you haven’t had an Orgasm, you tighten your face all in the effort to prove to your husband that you didn’t enjoy the act. You may even blame him that he doesn’t know how to handle a woman in bed. You dishonour and disappoint God by such a conduct in the bedroom.

What God expects is that you would let go of all restraints during Sex and allow your body to freely respond to all the excitement that flow through it and let Orgasms take place. He enjoys seeing couples making love. He enjoys seeing His daughters moaning and thrusting as waves of Orgasms course through their beautiful bodies! It gives Him joy to see that what He created for our joy indeed gives us Joy!!!
From today, have GOD in mind when making love with your spouse. Do it well and as an act of offering God pleasure, making Him happy and glorifying Him.(read Revelation 4:11; 1 Corinthians 10:31)

💕❤️ TODAY’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN MARRIAGE
Soberly reread today’s devotional piece and discuss. Share your understanding of the teaching with each other.

Dr Panam Percy Paul sang: “We have been together for too long to pretend. Sharing our love is what we have promised to do.” How could you still be pretending about Sex after being married for many years? And you think God is happy with that? It’s time for a change of attitude about Sex in your marriage.

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