DURING A RECENT LOVE-LIFE EVENT, a man wanted to know what a husband should do if his wife asks for sexual intimacy twenty times in a day. It sounded “queer” to most of those in attendance at the event, how a housewife could be desirous of Sexual Intimacy 20 times in one day.
However, when you look at the sexual potential of such a lady in comparison with other areas of human capacities, you’ll find that instead of feeling overwhelmed, her husband should be sincerely thankful that he’s blessed with such a wife. All he needs do is to simply adapt to her and the libido difference will be naturally bridged. As our second anchor scripture says: he that walks with wise men shall be wise. Similarly, he that adapts to his sexually energetic wife will be transformed into a sexually energetic husband.
Supposing the woman were a business mogul with so much money flooding her bank accounts everyday, would the husband complain? Would he say that she needs deliverance from the spirits of Mammon who are pushing so much cash into her accounts? No. He would instead be happy and excitedly sit down with her to plan how best they should manage the massive daily inflow of wealth into their home.
Similarly, if you’re blessed with a Spouse who is a Libido Billionaire, you don’t need to seek a deliverance minister for exorcism. It’s daft and even insane to think such a thought. Sadly, this is the foolish step some have taken. They’ve called their sexually endowed Mate “possessed”. They’re not possessed but highly gifted sexually.
In our first anchor scripture, Spouses are COMMANDED to meet the bedroom needs of their Mate. Nothing is said about whether your Mate is asking for it too often or not. The command is to RENDER. So God is well aware of the libido difference among Spouses in marriage and yet commanded that Spouses meet one another’s bedroom needs and never defraud one another in that extra-sensitive area of marriage.
If, however, the rate at which your Mate makes demands is inconveniencing for you, there’s nothing to worry about. You just need to both sit down together and discuss. Then, plan on the best APPROACH to meeting the need of your mate. It will involve making sacrifices on your own part though but don’t worry because your Partner is well worth any level of sacrifice you may have to make.
Marriage is all about LOVE and one basic attribute of Love is GIVING. You cannot love without giving to the person you profess to Love.
Giving is in different forms and the highest form of it is SACRIFICE. In Sacrifice, you go out of your way to focus on the wellbeing of your Spouse; and you willingly give up your convenience, comfort, privileges, strength, etc. so as to meet the genuine need in the life of your Mate.
We can easily learn Sacrifice from the love of a mother for her infant child. Her new born who slept all day long would be wide awake in the night and crying again and again for her breasts or just for mere attention. What does the mother do? Deny the child of her breasts or attention? Of course not. She’ll sacrifice her sleep for the child’s wellbeing, because she knows that the child has no other mother.
In marriage, the same kind of compassionate and sacrificial love should be practiced in the Bedroom. Always remember that you are the only source of sexual sustenance that God has given to your Mate. You’re their sole source of sexual nourishment.
The Bedroom is one place no one can assist you in your conjugal duties. Your P.A., Driver, Nanny, Gardener, or Cook can’t deputize for you in the Bed. So, quit complaining about your Spouse being “too sexually demanding” and choose to walk in sacrificial love! In addition, you can always approach God’s Throne Of Grace to ask for fresh supply of Grace and renewed capacities to serve your Mate better and it will be granted.
In the Marriage Bedroom, the Spouse with the lesser desire for Sex should be considerate of the Mate who has an extralarge sexual appetite and protect them from falling into Adultery, because in the event of a fall and the scandal that would erupt,
you’ll be as hard hit as your Mate, not any less.
Since you’re “sexually stronger” and don’t easily get tempted sexually, why not sacrifice for the safety and protection of your Mate, Home and Marriage? Remember the Bible says:
“WE THEN THAT ARE STRONG OUGHT TO BEAR THE INFIRMITIES OF THE WEAK AND NOT TO PLEASE OURSELVES. FOR EVEN CHRIST PLEASED NOT HIMSELF”(Romans 15:1,3a)
🍷🍗TAKE-HOME LESSON: SACRIFICE IS THE MASTER KEY FOR MEETING THE BEDROOM NEEDS OF YOUR MARRIAGE PARTNER.
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