
I DON’T KNOW HOW YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE met, but let’s assume it was at the Government Hospital as each of you was on a visit to loved ones who happened to be in the same Ward. One thing led to another and you exchanged contacts. And amazingly, you both felt the strong pull of true love. You had a glorious courtship and then you got married.
Beloved, the truth is, even though your love during courtship was glorious, it was the flowerpot or nursery stage of your romance as covenant Lovers.
On your Wedding day, your relationship was divinely moved from the “flower pot” and transplanted to the massive and well manured garden called MARRIAGE.
Your Marriage is the place where your passion and romance should grow luxuriantly and become a mighty flower tree of Love. But most couples ignorantly saw their Wedding as “the Pinnacle”. No, your wedding isn’t the peak of your love. You’re both designed to keep growing and increasing mightily in love until death brings your union to an end.
So then, how do you grow your mutual Love in Marriage so that you both attain your full stature as married Lovers? Here’s how:
1) REDISCOVER EACH OTHER EVERY NEW DAY!
Before you met, you lived your seperate lives in complete oblivion of each other, right? But the discovery of each other is the spark that ignited your Love.
Hear this important secret: With every second, your Spouse is growing and evolving into A NEW AND BETTER PERSON than the one you met long ago. Husband, the Wife you’re with this morning is a day older, a day more beautiful, a day more mature and a day more sexually richer than the one you slept with last night! Her burning bush gets sweeter every new day. The same is true of husbands. Simply put, God presents to you A BRAND NEW VERSION of your marriage partner each day, just like He gives new food for every new day instead of leftovers from yesterday or even yesteryears!Discover and embrace this new romantic person and practically fall in love with them afresh!
2) HIGHLY PRIORITIZE EACH OTHER.
Do you still remember what happened when you first fell in love with each other long ago? Your hearts were occupied by only one human LOVER out of the millions of people on Earth: your present Spouse! You prioritized, highly esteemed and treasured each other in your respective hearts. This is what it should be and our two anchor scriptures both confirm this: when you love and treasure a person, your heart merrily hangs around them continually. You need to do so ALL OVER AGAIN. Consciously fill your heart and thoughts with your Spouse. Here’s one of the ways to do so. Have your Spouse’s framed picture facing you on your Office desk. Have their pictures in your Bible. Make their photos your laptop and phone’s screensaver. Practically place reminders at several places that would frequently stir up your affection for them.
Compose romantic songs about them. Write poems about them. Make portraits of them, if you’re a fine artist.
3) WATER AND NURTURE YOUR LOVE AND ROMANCE EVERY BLESSED DAY
And how do you do this? By practically doing acts of love, kindness, affection and goodness for each other. By going out of your way to serve one another and to be a blessing. By adding to the happiness, health and fulfillment of each other. By forgiveness, by apologies, peacefulness, tenderness and sacrificial love.
Just imagine how a growing flower plant feels when watered with a Watering Can. It enjoys the refreshing showers and the water goes down all the way to it’s roots. The plant feels refreshed and happy. That’s how it is when, instead of hitting each other with criticisms and disapprovals, you choose instead to humbly assist, support, help and attend to each other’s need, fantasies, dreams and even idiosyncrasies! When you focus on doing these consistently, your union will grow exponentially and both of you will transform into great Lovers whose lives will inspire thousands of younger Spouses and impact many families.
π₯π₯π₯ FAITH DECREE:
π₯LET THE GRACE TO BE A GREAT LOVER BE GRANTED EVERY READER THAT EARNESTLY DESIRES IT.β‘β‘β‘
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