🪘🍂🤎In the marriage bedroom, you should not carelessly present “anything you like” and then fall asleep snoring! No. It is important that you are committed enough to endeavor to present to your mate the kind of sexual service they will tremendously enjoy—so much so that their heart will be roused to praise and glorify God. To consistently achieve this, you need to always be mindful of “The 3 Ps”: Presentation, Performance, and Proportion.
🪘🍂🤎PRESENTATION
Visual Appeal: Your mate’s enjoyment of you begins with what they see. Put plainly, your “packaging” or physical appearance during the hour of intimacy matters a lot.
Hygiene: Take the trouble to bathe and be squeaky clean. Ensure you smell good and inviting. Brush your teeth once again so your breath won’t be a turnoff.
Attitude: Be visibly eager, excited, and passionate. Let your attitude be motivating. This is not the time to murmur or grumble. These rules apply to both husband and wife.
🪘🍂🤎PERFORMANCE
Sex is a performance. Spirituality and religious titles do not change that fact. Your performance is either superlative and praiseworthy, or it is lackluster and demotivating. As a believer in Jesus Christ, remember that God wants to see a touch of excellence in all you do—including your sexual performance on the marriage bed.
In the time of sexual intimacy, be electric! Be highly passionate and intense. Make love at a “high voltage” level. Be utterly unashamed and completely uninhibited. Give your mate a sexual encounter for which you will be long remembered.
The Bible says: “Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). Carry out your sexual performance with the goal of making it so enjoyable to your mate that they will glorify God!
Never approach lovemaking as a laughable or “funny” act. What God designed is not a joke; it is holy and honorable (Hebrews 13:4). It is a high, covenant duty, and God expects you to perform it with all your heart, as unto Him: “And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men” (Colossians 3:23).
🪘🍂🤎PROPORTION
In marriage, you are there to cater to the sexual hunger and thirst of one another. Always provide a sufficient “quantity” of sexual intimacy to your mate so that they are fully satisfied each time.
There is a unique quality to sexual intimacy: elasticity. Sex is elastic; you can stretch it to last longer than you initially intended. For instance, if a wife finds the experience thrilling, she might say, “My darling, don’t end it yet. Let’s continue.” The husband should comply and continue.
However, this requires the husband to train himself ahead of time to control his own excitement. Once he has mastered self-control, sexual intimacy can be elongated, stretched, and extended to last and last.
💕❤️ Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment:
Reread this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with an open and sincere heart.
📚📖✒️ Quotes For Reflection:
“It is a known fact that the more often a husband has erections through interactions with his wife, the healthier his virility as a man.”(Anselm Ahman. Lovebirds’ Devotional, April 20, 2026)
✝️ Altar Call:
Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today and be saved!
🌡️⚗️ Scientific Info To Boost Your Marriage:
“Science indicates that uncontrolled anger is a destructive force in marriage, often acting as a “slow poison” that erodes trust, safety, and intimacy.”
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