WHEN I GOT TO PRIMARY FOUR, I HAPPILY GRADUATED from writing with Pencils to using Penholder! Some of you have never heard of Penholders let alone seeing one!

Well, Penholders are different from Fountain Pens. You needed to have your own ink bottle into which you dipped the nib of your Penholder to write. And of course, you had to have a Blotter handy for use in taking care of any accidental ink spillage on your exercise book.
Any one who saw you with a Penholder, an Ink bottle and a Blotter knew it was normal. No one raised eyebrows.

By the time you moved into secondary school and used Fountain Pens or “Biro”, it was seen as proper and normal too.

In life, there are things that are normal for everyone at every stage. When you got married, sexual intimacy became a natural and normal part of your life and living as a married man or woman. Infact, it became a compulsory part of your duties and routines as a Spouse.

And it’s important for you to know that God hasn’t set any limits as to how many times you should have Sex. He has lovingly left that to the mutual discretion, choice and decision of you and your Mate.

As a married person, you need to understand that God calls Sexual intimacy in marriage WATER; and that’s indeed what it is to your life as a married person.

What is physical water to us? It’s the very staff of life. Good and important as food is, yet water is more important than food because it’s our most basic nourishment.
What water is to your physical life is exactly what Sex is to you and your spouse and your marriage. It’s your basic marital nourishment.
Sexual intimacy feeds and nurtures your marriage as a covenant relationship. And that’s why the devil fights couples tooth and nail; and works so arduously to keep them apart with quarrels and bickerings just so they don’t make love.
The result? Such a couple may still live under the same roof but their marriage is dehydrated, frail and slowly dying.

For more understanding, let’s take a quick look at Proverbs 5:15-17

“15 Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.
16 Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets.
17 Let them be only thine own, and not for strangers with thee.”

In the portion of scripture above, four sources of water are mentioned and they are: CISTERN, WELL, FOUNTAINS AND RIVERS. All the four sources of water are representative of the diverse kinds of usage to which water is employed.
RIVERS give large volumes of water in which to bathe and freely swim for leisure; apart from other forms of usage. FOUNTAINS give you a scenic flow of water to please and fascinate your aesthetic senses while the WELL and the CISTERN supply drinking water as well as water for your domestic use.
What all these mean is that God gave you sexual intimacy for so much more than making babies. Which means YOU SHOULD KEEP USING IT FULLY even after all your kids are grown, married and living in their own homes. It’s for “bathing, swimming, sightseeing, drinking and entertainment”.

When you go for “sexual bathing and swimming”, it means you’ll spend some good time together in lovemaking. You’re unhurried and therefore pay attention to details and to each other’s tastes and preferences.

You could at other times declare FOUNTAIN EXPERIENCE hours during which you give each other your bodies for visual, tactile and sensual delights.

And you can sometimes have WELL AND CISTERN dates during which your focus will be to quench each other’s burning sexual thirst and go to sleep.

Sexual Intimacy is the water of your Marriage World and Love Planet. Just as ordinary water is used to do several useful things so also is sexual intimacy. You can use it to induce sleep, enhance your mood; say,”Thank You” to your Partner, etc. When you understand these and practice them, you’ll know that it’s foolishness at it’s peak for any one who’s married to go for extramarital affairs at the risk of being infected with sexually transmitted diseases(STD) and spending eternity in hell fire!

Everything you need for romantic and sexual satisfaction are in your marriage RIGHT NOW. Be patient and discover them.

🔥🔥🔥FAITH DECREE:
🔥LET EVERY SPOUSE READING THIS DEVOTIONAL AND THEIR MARRIAGE PARTNER HAVE THE SAME UNDERSTANDING OF THE GIFT OF SEXUAL INTIMACY AND USE IT TO NOURISH THEIR MARRIAGE.

🍷🍗 TAKE-HOME LESSON: SEXUAL INTIMACY IS A NORMAL PART OF YOUR LIFE AS A HUSBAND OR WIFE. DON’T USE IT CEREMONIALLY; USE IT AS FREELY AS YOU USE WATER.

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