LOVEBIRDS' DEVOTIONAL

Enriching Matrimonies

DON’T BE AN “IDOL SPOUSE”!

Scripture:
‘4 Their idols are silver and gold, the work of men’s hands. 5 They have mouths, but they speak not: eyes have they, but they see not: 6 They have ears, but they hear not: noses have they, but they smell not: 7 They have hands, but they handle not: feet have they, but they walk not: neither speak they through their throat. 8 They that make them are like unto them; so is every one that trusteth in them.’
(PSALM 115: 4-8)

OUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE PASSAGE gives us some characteristics of IDOLS and they are as follows:

 

They have mouths but don’t speak, eyes but don’t see, ears but don’t hear, noses but don’t smell, hands but don’t handle; feet but can’t walk. Our anchor scriptures further tell us that some people are exactly like IDOLS!

 

As a Spouse, it’s important for you to know that the success of your union depends on how actively you conduct yourselves as Lovers who INVOLVE ALL THEIR SENSES in their relationship.

 

For instance, when your Mate is all dressed up for a function, don’t be like an IDOL who can’t see. Don’t be blind to the sudden transformation in your Mate’s outward appearance and the sweet fragrance of the rich perfume their wearing. Doesn’t cost you anything to open your mouth and acknowledge their beauty or handsome. Freely express some excitement. Give them some compliment and admiration. Of course, your husband or wife has already seen their own appearance in the dressing mirror but your hearty and excited admiration and praise will boost their confidence. More importantly, it will linger in their minds longer for a long time to come; much longer than what they saw in the mirror.

 

When your wife walks out of the Master bedroom bathroom, drops the large towel in which she’s draped, and you behold her in full nudity, it’s time to drop your android phone and gaze entranced at the Lady Universe that lives under your roof. Don’t just look and quickly turn away, take in the glorious sight and rain some showers 🚿 of praise on her. It won’t hurt if you offer to help rub the cream on her back and backsides. Remember, how King David got lost gazing at another man’s wife from the rooftops? His’ was an illegitimate and ungodly gaze. Gazing at your own wife when she’s nude is permitted, godly and legitimate. But don’t just gaze at her and keep quiet like an IDOL. Speak! Admire her.

 

One if the verses of my Love Song titled HELLO HUSBAND says:

 

“SHE IS UNIQUE AND SPECIAL, DIFFERENT FROM EVERY OTHER WOMAN;

PRAISE HER, ESTEEM HER, ADMIRE HER;

ACKNOWLEDGE HER WORTH HER WORTH AND APPRECIATE HER!”

 

One of preoccupation of the couple in the song of Solomon is praise and admiration of each other. If yours is going to be a lovey-dovey marriage, then you need to walk in their footsteps.

 

I have a Cat I named Kitty. As a composer, God gave the ability to create a song about anything. So I have a ditty for Kitty that goes like this:

“KITTY KĒTĒKĒTĒ, ‘BALAMI ĒNYŌ”. When I chant it for a while, do you know what happens? Kitty gets enchanted and joyfully jumps to kiss my feet. Unfortunately, it’s sharp teeth hurt me and I have to gently push it off. The point here is that praise and admiration work! If a Cat could be excited by a ditty said it’s admiration, your husband or wife is of a far higher intelligence and will most definitely be gladdened and encouraged by your compliments.

 

Every thing in your Mate’s body is praiseworthy and admirable. The hair of their head, armpits, groin and butts call for your admiration. The complexion, texture and colour of their skin deserve your encomium.

 

Every plant has it’s natural smell. So also do humans. There’s the clean, pure and natural fragrance of your marriage Partner. When you sniff it, tell them you love. In Genesis….., Isaac smelled the garment of his son and expressed his love for it. When you truly love someone, you’d love everything about them, including their natural God-given bodily fragrance.

 

Finally, when you’re making love and your Mate is giving you great waves of pleasure in bed, don’t like an IDOL that cannot talk. For goodness sake, open your mouth and let them know that you’re enjoying the act tremendously. Don’t be proud to admit that you are thrilled. Some say, “If you tell him, he will feel that you love sexual intimacy?” Oh, you don’t want your Spouse to know that you enjoy sexual intimacy? Dearly Beloved, that’s a devilish mindset! It’s like thinking that you don’t want your Mate to know that you enjoy honey, fish or meat. Your Mate is no fool. He knows. Expressing your enjoyment only shows that you’re fully human and not an IDOL from the demonic world. It also make your sexual fellowship deeper, richer and memorable.

 

 

🔥🔥🔥 FAITH DECREE:

🔥LET THE POWER OF GOD SERVICE AND RENEW ALL ASPECTS OF YOUR MARRIAGE FOR A MORE SUCCESSFUL MATRIMONIAL LIFE IN THE COMING YEAR!⚡

 

 

🍷🍗 TAKE-HOME LESSON: DON’T BE BLIND OR DUMB TO THE BEAUTIFUL THINGS GOD HAS GIVEN YOU IN THE PERSON OF YOUR SPOUSE. EXPRESS YOUR APPRECIATION OF THEM IN YOUR MATE’S PRESENCE AGAIN AND AGAIN AND!

 

 

💕❤️ TONIGHT’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM

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