🍍🥑When it comes to lovemaking, you will do well to learn to always forsake your hurt feelings and offer thrilling and fulfilling Sex to your Spouse because you owe it to them.

🥑🍍Our anchor scripture is a command. It’s by no means a suggestion. In it God commands you to give your mate complete and satisfactory Sex, irrespective of your hurt feelings.

🍍🥑No woman or housewife cooks a careless and tasteless meal because she was offended by her husband some hours earlier. Inspite of her hurt feelings, she’ll put in her best to cook a good and delicious meal for her family because meals are fundamental to the life of her family.

🥑🍍Similarly, no spouse should offer their marriage partner “half cooked” or “cut and nail” Sex just because they had a misunderstanding. The reason is same as in the case of family meals: sexual intimacy is too basic to the life and survival of a Marriage to be gone about shabbily because you had a misunderstanding.

🍍🥑Unfortunately, many Spouses do this constantly and still wonder why their Marriage isn’t getting sweeter but becoming bitter and weak.

🥑🍍Some even go to the extent of altogether refusing to sleep on the same bed with their Mate for days, weeks or even months just because they were offended! Spouses, such a conduct amounts to ungodliness and foolishness. Let’s look at it this way:

🍍🥑If you’re a civil servant, do you refuse to go to work because the Boss at the workplace spoke to you roughly or disrespectfully the previous day? No! If you refuse to show up at work, you risk being sacked.

🥑🍍Or if you’re a trader, do you refuse to go to the market to sell your wares because some customers were rude to you? Nobody does such! You will go about your business regardless of how someone at the market spoke to you. Why? Because your business is too important to the welfare of your family to be suspended just because a customer or any other person at the market spoke to you wrongly.

🍍🥑In Marriage, giving your marriage partner sexual intimacy is a duty, an obligation and a high responsibility you have been assigned to faithfully fulfil. In the same way, your Mate has the obligation of meeting your own sexual needs too. The Person who gave you this responsibility is God. So your obedience or disobedience primarily affects God ever before it affects your marriage partner. And if you choose disobedience, then expect to be divinely disciplined.

🥑🍍In Marriage, you are to serve each other high quality, flavoured, refined, deluxe and well packaged Sex. And you must not forget to add “Jara” each time! That is, go the extra mile to make your Mate happy.

❤️💕 TONIGHT’S ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
Reread the devotional piece just before bedtime and honestly discuss it.

📚📖 QUOTES:

✒️🖋️”There are marriages in which one of the Spouses has become emotionally worn out because of continual rejection. Their gifts are rejected, their love is spurned and there is no explanation coming from their proud and cocky mate who is gradually becoming an inaccessible castle.
Dear Reader, if you’re in the habit of rejecting your mate or their friendship without explanations you need to REPENT. If you’re remotely using frustrations to make your partner tired of the marriage and ask for a divorce, so you could marry a new Spouse, be warned! GOD ALMIGHTY is watching and He judges marital transgressors.”(Anselm Ahman. From Lovebirds’ Devotional of July 1, 2024)

✝️ JESUS CHRIST IS CALLING YOU! COME TO HIM TODAY AND BE SAVED!!!

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