AFTER OUR RECENT DEVOTIONAL PIECE TITLED: “GIVE YOUR WIFE SUPERCALIFRAGILISTICEXPIALIDOCIOUS SEX” went out, someone expressed the view that it’s the wife who should adapt to her husband in the bedroom since the husband is the head of the home. I answered the beloved brother and he was satisfied.

Today’s devotional piece is sent to throw more light on why it’s husbands that should ADAPT to their wives in sexual intimacy. A proper understanding of the sexual nature of the woman will convince any husband that he’s the one who should adapt to his wife on the bed of love and not otherwise.

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1) FIRST REASON WHY A HUSBAND SHOULD ADAPT TO HIS WIFE: HE NEEDS TO WAIT FOR HER.

The husband’s sexual nature is comparable to DRY GRASS. As soon as you set fire on dry grass, it starts burning and fast too. That’s why as soon as a man SEES his wife taking off her blouse in readiness for Sex, he’s instantly aroused and immediately ready for intimacy. She hasn’t taken off anything else. Just the blouse and her husband’s body is on fire with passion!
Infact, he may even offer to assist her with removing the remaining clothing on her so they would immediately START. But Madam isn’t yet ready. This is why the husband must not be selfish and insist that she hurry up. She’s not refusing to “hurry up”. She just has a different nature.

But some men insist that their wife ‘submit’ even though she’s not aroused. To avoid quarrel, she submits. What happens next is not lovemaking but consented rape. And the poor, dominated wife gets nothing from it because her will is violated and she’s used. The man is inconsiderate of his wife’s feelings, taste, desire and worse of all, he’s inconsiderate of her nature: that she needs some tenderloving handling and sweetness from her husband for her to be ablaze with passion and fully ready for congress.

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The sexual nature of the woman is like CHARCOAL. You don’t light Charcoal as you light DRY GRASS.
If you’ve used charcoal pressing iron before, you’ll know that you have to place some livecoals or burning coals amidst the black and fireless coals and fan them for sometime before all of them become red-hot and then you can proceed to iron your clothes. Fanning the fire takes time, patience and energy. Similarly, it takes time, patience and love to fan the arousal of your wife diligently until it’s burning hot and she’ll tell you to “start”. And that’s the right time to start: when her burning bush is burning high!

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2) THE SECOND REASON WHY A HUSBAND SHOULD ADAPT TO HIS WIFE: HE NEEDS TO WAIT ON HER.

Once your wife is highly ablaze and congress has begun, you must again adapt to her. Why? Because your nature still is as fast as it was at the beginning. You must therefore control it and slow it down; because if you don’t, the congress will be brief; it won’t last. Your wife will need you to last long in bed. What are you to do? It’s to regulate your body for her sake. God gave you the means to do this. As you regulate your body, you’ll be available for her for as long as she needs you. She might need you for an hour or even longer because rare is the woman who will move into the high clouds of sexual ecstasy and want to comeback soon. So your duty as a husband is to forget about yourself and focus on making your body available for her to use to her full satisfaction. When she’s fully satisfied with several waves of Orgasms, she’ll tell you that you can shut down. And then you can shut down.

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3) THIRD REASON WHY HUSBAND SHOULD ADAPT TO HIS WIFE: LOVE DEMANDS THAT HE SEEK HIS WIFE’S SATISFACTION ABOVE HIS OWN.

“Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.”(Philippians 2:4)

Sexual intimacy is comparable with walking with your wife. As a man, you have the bigger stride. To walk with her as a loving husband, you must slow down and deliberately reduce your pace, so the two of you could walk together and arrive your destination together.

You do the same in sexual intimacy. You practice Philippians 2:4 sited above and make every effort, so Madam gets more satisfied than you. This is how to give your wife supercalifragilisticexpialidocious sex. When you do this consistently, she’ll be able to say, like the woman in our anchor scripture, “THY LOVE IS BETTER THAN WINE.”🍒🍊🪘

💕❤️TONIGHT’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
Reread today’s devotional piece together. Then practice today’s devotional teaching together.

JESUS IS LORD FOREVER!!!

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