OUR ANCHOR SCRIPTURE IS A POPULAR ONE and carries precious messages, much of which are not apparent. You get them by sober meditation.

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WHO BUILDS THE HOUSE???
Our anchor scripture reveals that the wife is the builder of the home.

Yes, the husband is the head and the wife bears his name but the woman is the builder. She’s divinely given that privilege.

However, she has to be wise to be able to build well. It’s in the area of wisdom that very many wives have missed it.

If you remember the story of the ten virgins(Matthew 25:1-13), you’ll recall that five were wise while five were foolish. Foolishness in this case wasn’t that they were idiots. No. They simply were not diligent or foresighted. They didn’t think of the possibility of the need for more oil arising. The five wise virgins thought about that and so took extra oil.

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MADAM, BE FORESIGHTED!
So a wise woman is a thinker! She’s a foresighted and forward thinking person. She’s minded not just to go the extra mile but to go five more, when necessary, to make her marriage a success.

Madam, if you’re going to succeed as a wife you must be wise; meaning you have to be a sober headed, foresighted and forward thinking woman. That’s the problem of the foolish woman in our anchor scripture. Not that she’s an idiot or an imbecile. She lacked foresight and so doesn’t see the value of her husband and marriage. Consequently, she despises them and pulls them down.

On the other hand, a wise wife esteems her husband and marriage.

She sees the full details of her assignment of building her house. She knows it’s not enough to build the house.

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A HIGH FENCE AND A SOLID GATE
A wise wife sees the importance of constructing a high fence around her house and setting a strong gate in place. Why? Here’s why:

So that no homewreckers and marriage breakers would be able to step into her home and love world.

And secondly and more importantly, so that her husband would not go out to those vile and evil women out there!

Now, listen attentively:

Building the house, isn’t with stone, wood and metal.

You build with a virtuous character, love and obedience to the Word of God on Marriage.

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A SOBER PERSONAL STUDY
A wise woman takes her time to understand what attracts husbands to harlots, prostitutes and Side-chicks.

She realizes it’s basically Beauty, Friendliness and exhilarating Sex(Prov. 5:3; 2:16; 6:24-25)

With this knowledge, the wise wife builds her fence around her house to prevent her husband from sneaking out those women. How? Not by quarells, rebellion, threats and disrespect. No.

She knows that she’s a woman and that there’s nothing those sinful women out there are offering that she can’t offer ten times more!

So, she builds her fence and gates by:
Giving attention to her outward appearance consistently. She deliberately and strategically invests in her Girlie-girl appearance.

Secondly, and more importantly, she gives her husband so much Sex, Submission and Respect.

Not slothful and diluted sex but concentrated lovemaking that convince her husband that his wife has no match anywhere sexually.
She makes him believe that she has the Grace for Sex. (There’s indeed the Grace for Sex. May be we’ll teach that in Lovebirds’ Devotional one day).

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BE SEXUALLY HIGHER THAN SIDE-CHICKS
In yesterday’s devotional, we said:

“As a Spirit filled housewife, your practice of sexual intimacy should be so high; such that if it were possible and acceptable, prostitutes should come and take notes of instructions on Sex from you.”

This is what it should be!!!

Avoid passivity in your sexual life with your husband.

Passivity means being dull and inactive during sex with your husband.
This is one of the reasons many husbands are trooping out to the prostitutes, harlots and side-chicks. Those women are not dull in bed. They’re not pretenders as many wives are. They perform the act very well and without shyness. Why? Because they want to impress the man so he’d keep coming.

And what are wives to do? They should endeavor to be super good in bed so that their husbands are satisfied and won’t want to go outside.

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YOUR LOOK-ALIKE IS OUT THERE!
Every wife must always remember that she has competitors outside. Some of them even resemble you physically.

Some of them want your husband. You must therefore build a fence of your personal attractiveness and romantic allures around him; and set the gate of glorious sexual intimacy before him continually.
Now, don’t say that this demand is too much on wives.

If a prostitute can sleep with 10 men every night of a week and is happy, the housewife should be able to take her husband on sexually every night, so much so that it’s the husband who will be pleading for a break to rest for some nights. When you are able to achieve this level of sexual commitment in your marriage, then you have fenced your house and set up a powerful gate before your husband and locked it!!! He won’t step out to other women. It’s for his good and yours because most of those women out there are deadly murderers.

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A TESTIMONY
Some years ago, a colleague of mine and a fellow Servant of God celebrated his wife on Facebook. He announced right on that global platform that since he married his wife, she had never said “NO” to him whenever he asked her for sexual intimacy. That’s a wise woman who has built a high fence around her marriage and set a heavy iron gate. Nothing would make her husband think of going to the streets to patronize harlots, alias Side-chicks.

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DELAY THE DATE OF YOUR WIDOWHOOD
Finally, hear this: Studies have shown that sexual intimacy help husbands to live long because it’s a longevity enhancer and booster.

So, when you give your husband plenty of sex, you are postponing your day of widowhood. The foolish woman doesn’t know this. Don’t be like her. Elongate your husband’s life by giving him condensed and concentrated sex.

Don’t always wait for him to ask. Invite him and give it to him. That way you’re pushing forward the date your widowhood will begin.

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HUSBANDS ARE SCARCE
Don’t forget that husbands are scarce. So hold yours very well: not with your hands but with your Thighs, your Beauty, Submission, Love and Respect.

💕❤️Tonight’s Assignment In The Bedroom:
Reread today’s devotional piece together and discuss it.

✝️ Jesus Is Lord Forever!

Only Jesus can save your soul from going to Hell.
If you haven’t yet received Him, please ask Him to come into your heart and save you and He will.
Please, don’t delay! Receive Him Today!