In Marriage, disinterest in sex, nonchalance towards sex, disregard for sex and an aversion to sex: all these are in no way marks of spirituality, virtue, chastity or spiritual power. They are unhealthy, unnatural and dangerous development that place the marriage of those concerned at great hazards and peril. When a spouse finds themselves in this condition, there’s need to be concerned and seek for solution.
In our anchor scripture for today, the lady voices the natural motto or anthem of all Spouses irrespective of their age or gender.
Every normal spouse should hungrily crave the body, the flesh of their partner with whom they have become one flesh in the sight of God and Man.
When a spouse becomes sexually apathetic, something is wrong. Even when it’s just a case of declined desire for sex which is referred to as low libido; it calls for concern.
Sexual intimacy is at the very heart of Marriage. It’s primary, basic and foundational to marriage. It’s the water of the married life and God has placed in every husband or wife, the thirst for this glorious and refreshing water.
Like the thirst for natural water is recurrent and comes a number of times in the course of the 24 hour day, so should the thirst for the body of your marriage partner be frequently recurrent in you.
Should your child lose their appetite for food, would you clap your hands and celebrate that the family would now be able to cook less food and save more money? Of course, you won’t. You’d be seriously concerned and would take the child to your family Doctor and complain about their loss of appetite.
Unfortunately, in several marriages, the opposite is the case. The Spouse who has a low appetite for sex, instead of feeling alarmed about his/her condition, is mocking their mate who has a fervent sexual desire and calls them : “carnal” “worldly”, “unspiritual” and “full of lust”. Such name calling aren’t only wrong they stem from gross ignorance.
Let it be said very firmly and clearly: there’s nothing like Lust in the relationship between husband and wife. If your spouse is hungrily desirous of your body ten times a day, it should be your joy. It shows that you’re physically attractive, romantically desirable and sexually irresistible to your Mate. That should make you grateful to God. You should happily yield yourself to them and you’ll find that you’ll catch the thirst and you’ll both enjoy the experience.
Finally, if you’re the Spouse who has lost your desire for sex, I have good news for you. You can get a brand new sex thirst! How? By going to God in prayer and asking for a new and strong sexual desire and it will be given to you. Is this true? Very true! Please, read:
“Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:
For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened”(Matthew 7:7-8). This divine promise covers all needs including the need for a new and strong sexual desire. Ask and you will receive!!!
❤️💕 TONIGHT’S ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
Reread the devotional piece just before bedtime and soberly discuss it.
📚📖🌹QUOTES:
“In Marriage, it’s wisdom for Spouses to give each other Awards of Excellence, Awards of Love, Awards of Protection, etc, etc.”(Anselm Ahman. From Lovebirds’ Devotional of August 27, 2024)
✝️ JESUS CHRIST IS CALLING YOU! COME TO HIM TODAY AND BE SAVED!!!
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