MARRIAGE IS A LOVE AFFAIR. WHEN YOU PRACTICE IT AS SUCH, you and your Spouse will not fall victim to the deceptive and foul spirits of infidelity.
Fidelity or faithfulness to your Spouse and your marriage vows need to be strengthened and consolidated; and one important way of doing it is to invest in your marriage regularly.
In our anchor scripture, the lady came up with a powerful love-renewal idea. What was it? It was to change environment, travel out to the country side! What was the purpose or intent? It was to inject newness into their relationship. It was to invest in their union and move it up to a new level.
Changing environment once in awhile is good and healthy for your marriage. This morning, however, we’re looking at investing in your marriage right at the home base.
Genesis 2: 9-10 records the beauty and freshness of the first couple’s home. It also tells us that it was the initiative and handwork of God.
Similarly, you and your Mate must also take the initiative of making your marriage beautiful and fresh. Here are some suggestions.
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1) INVEST IN TRANSFORMING YOUR BEDROOM INTO A LOVE ARENA OR GARDEN
God gave attention to planting beautiful trees and fruit trees in the Garden of Eden. Use his example.
Invest in your bedroom. If you can afford the services of an interior decorator, engage one to help you give your bedroom some professional touch.
A Church Altar decorator once told me that Altar decorations need to be changed every three or four months. This gives the sanctuary a fresh look.
Similarly, your marriage bedroom needs some touch of change from time to time.
You’ll be surprised at the new energy with which you’ll be making love and the frequency and liberty with which you’ll give yourselves to each other just because the room has received a touch of change!
If the bedroom door lock is old and weak, change it.
Take time to rearrange the things in the bedroom.
You could change the position of the bed; fix new light bulbs. Just sit down together and talk and you’ll both find ideas coming to your minds that will transform your love room!
The changes don’t necessarily need to be elaborate. May just be little but necessary, vital and significant touches here and there that will give the room a new atmosphere, uplifting your mood and spirits.
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2)INVEST IN YOUR APPEARANCE AND ATTRACTIVENESS
When you read Genesis 12:11-16, you’ll find that at the age of 75, Mama Sarah was still so stunningly beautiful that news about her beauty reached the ears of Pharoah and he took her!
Sir/Ma, spirituality doesn’t mean you should look dull and unkempt at the age of 50!
Mama Sarah took time to maintain her God-given beauty and I’m sure Father Abraham also took care of himself.
As a couple, invest in your bodies and in your general outlook. You might be retired from the workplace but you never retire or go on leave or holiday in marriage. By all means, endeavour to daily look attractive for each other.
Invest in love wears, just as we taught in one of our recent devotionals. It’s good you create a bedroom wardrobe. Sir, go shopping and buy Madam some snazzy, flashy and attractive panties. Oh, you’re afraid that the Shop people may call you a “woman wrapper”? That shouldn’t bother you one bit. From time to time, buy your wife some “sexies”, some “cuties” and some “provocatives” to be wearing in the bedroom.
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3) THE GREATEST AREA OF INVESTMENT IS YOUR MINDS
Invest in your minds. Get understanding of Lovelife from the pages of Scripture.
Because God is LOVE and LOVE is ageless, your marriage and love lives are ageless.
Remember that as a born again Christian spouse, you’re the seed of Abraham and have the blessings of Abraham. If your Father Abraham had a vibrant love life and could marry a new wife when he was past the age of 140, then you’re just a youth in Lovelife and your love-energies are perfectly intact.
Don’t follow the people of the world who believe that Lovelife begins to decline from the age of forty. Don’t join them in their wrong belief.
Here at Maximum Marriage Ministries, we have a firm belief that’s captured in the acronym “AWASH”. It stands for “ADULT WIVES ARE SWEETEST, HOTTEST!!!”. We have written on Adult Wives in one of our past devotionals. Please, search for it and read it.
The Adult Wife is AWASH with affection, passion, and romance. This means, she overflows with affection passion and romance! No husband need look outside when he has an adult woman as his wife.
The truth is that women don’t depreciate in love power. They appreciate and that’s why we say at Maximum Marriage Ministries that in Love it’s: “The Older, The Sweeter!”
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Reread today’s devotional piece together and discuss it.
✝️Jesus Is Lord Forever!
If you haven’t yet received HIM, please ask Him to come into your heart and save you and He will.
Don’t delay!!! RECEIVE HIM TODAY!!!
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