TO ENJOY YOUR SPOUSE, you need to DAILY invest KINDNESS in their life. When you don’t spend this virtue on your Mate, your practice of marriage will be weak and faulty; and you’ll wonder why there’s so much harshness and confrontations between you.
KINDNESS is like the rays of the Sun. Just as the Sun’s rays soften and ripen fruits, so does kindness soften the Heart.
What is KINDNESS? IT’S THE QUALITY OF BEING CARING, NICE, GENTLE, FRIENDLY, HELPFUL and GENEROUS TO OTHERS.
Kindness is like Fire: the more you express it to your Spouse the more it “cooks them”(softens, sweetens and seasons them); making them more enjoyable to you and vice versa.
On the other hand, when physical fire burns a man, it leaves ugly scars on the skin. Similarly, the “Fire of Kindness” leaves “beautiful scars”. “Scars” of fond memories of your person and of the blessings you’ve been to the Beneficiary. And if your Spouse is that Beneficiary, sweet memories of you will flood their heart; most especially when you’re separated by thousands of kilometers.
In showing kindness to your Spouse, you’re also writing unforgettable “Love Epistles” on their heart. These invisible writings will move your spouse’s emotions, heart and mind; sometimes to loving tears, in your favour.
Kindness must be in words and action.
A kind person is careful with words. He is swift to hear but slow to speak; all in the effort to speak words that would not injure their Mate. He’s polite, courteous,and considerate.
Kindness involves behaving in a gracious and pleasant manner towards your Mate. You’ll assist them in their work willingly, as much as you can.
Kindness also involves giving material gifts to your Partner. Not only birthday and marriage anniversary gifts, but small, handy and inexpensive surprise gifts that you’ll bring along from time to time . Shop for such gifts for your Partner often; as much as your income permits.
Let your Kindness rise over your Spouse like the Sun every morning! Let it illuminate and fill your mutual Love-World all day long everyday.
π·π TAKE-HOME LESSON: LET KINDNESS BE YOUR MOTTO EVERY NEW DAY AS YOU LIVE TOGETHER AS A COUPLE!
πβ€οΈ TONIGHT’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
Reread today’s devotional piece and discuss it.
ππMARRIAGE REVOLUTION CONTINUES!ππ
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ENRICH YOUR MARRIAGE EVERYDAY WITH LOVE SONGS: Visit Audio Mack, Spotify or Boom Play this evening. Type ANSELM AHMAN in the Search space and and listen to my Romantic Song titled: HELLO HUSBANDπͺπͺ