LOVEBIRDS' DEVOTIONAL

Enriching Matrimonies

MASTER YOUR LOVE INSTRUMENT

Scripture:
‘AND DAVID PUT HIS HAND IN HIS BAG, AND TOOK THENCE A STONE, AND SLANG IT, AND SMOTE THE PHILISTINE IN HIS FOREHEAD; AND HE FELL UPON HIS FACE TO THE EARTH.’
(1 SAMUEL 17:49)

🪗🎷🥁🎹🎸Multiplied millions of people have heard the story of the exploits of the teenage boy, David, who killed a giant warrior with a mere sling and a stone!

🪗🎷🥁🎹🎸AN INSPIRATIONAL ACCOUNT
Throughout the ancient and modern worlds, this true-life story has been cherished, and it has inspired many to take on their own giants and conquer them.

🪗🎷🥁🎹🎸AN OVERLOOKED ANGLE
However, there is one aspect of that story to which most people have not given attention. It is the fact that the boy David did not just saunter forth to face a giant warrior who had drilled himself for war, perhaps for whole months! David was also well prepared and certain that he would bring the giant down without slinging more than five times. But as it turned out, he did not even need to sling twice! With his first stone, he brought the boastful behemoth down on his face!

🪘What does this tell you? It tells you that David had a perfect grasp of the principles, practice, and mastery of the ancient military art of slinging! He was an astute slinger who, though young, had long attained the ability to sling with high velocity and accuracy without missing his target! He had become a slingshot marksman long before meeting Goliath.

🪗🎷🥁🎹🎸MASTER YOUR LOVE INSTRUMENT
Beloved, God has blessed you with sexual organs for use in marriage. But the question is: Have you mastered how to use each of them without mistakes, blunders, and apologies? Or do you think that, in marriage, “anything” you offer your spouse as “intimacy” is acceptable, even if it is lacklustre, boring, and fails to thrill your partner in any way?

🪗🎷🥁🎹🎸EVER READY
Have you reached the point where your spouse could tell you, “Darling, let’s make love for one full hour!” and you could immediately hop into bed and play your love instrument in harmony with your spouse for one full hour without tiring or experiencing an accidental “discharge”?

🪗🎷🥁🎹🎸IT’S AN ART LIKE EVERY OTHER
Sexual intimacy is an art. It is like any other performance. The more often you practise it together as a couple, the more skilled you both become. It is important that you are both minded to harmonise your performance so that there will be rhythm, cadence, and unity of tempo, just as rhumba dancers dance in one accord.

🪇Your sexual organs are like a musician’s voice. By God’s grace, I am a music minister, and I know from experience that when I work on my voice through deliberate vocal exercises for some time, I soon notice an improvement in my singing voice.

🎼The same thing applies to the songs I have newly written. When I spend a reasonable amount of time practising a new song, it becomes a part of me, and I can sing it with ease. So, it is one thing for both the voice and the song to be yours, but when you do not work on them, you will perform without a touch of excellence.

🪈The same principle applies to the marriage bed. Without regular, intentional, and spirited practice or exercise of your lovemaking “instruments”, your sexual performance will be average or humdrum at best. And being average in this area is not the best for your union.

🎶Reach for the stars! After all, you already have the capacity built into you. All you need to do is train together and unleash that capacity for the good of your marriage.

🪗🎷🥁🎹🎸SEEK BEDROOM EXCELLENCE!
On the marriage bed, there is indeed such a thing as sexual excellence. And, to tell you the truth, it is not something that is stumbled upon or attained by a stroke of luck. As a couple, you must first recognise its importance and desire it ardently. Then, you must work towards it constantly and consistently. Do this, and it can become yours!

🪗🎷🥁🎹🎸CONCLUSION: BE AN EXPERT SO THAT SOME EXPERT DOESN’T STEAL YOUR SPOUSE…
A Christian housewife once told me how she was in a small gathering of women. As they conversed, one of them spoke about a lady they all knew who was well-endowed and how this lady was maltreating her husband by denying him sexual intimacy.

🎺One of the unmarried women among them became angry and said, “As she is joking with her husband, any day he falls into my hands, by the time I finish handling him in bed, he will automatically forget her forever!”

🎻How does this sound in your ears? Empty, arrogant, and inconsequential braggadocio? Well, the day I heard those words, they made me thoughtful for some time. The woman who made this boast was sure of herself and her sexual prowess. She certainly knew what she was talking about.

🪕I happened to have seen that lady once before hearing that report about her. She looked beautiful and attractive, and she seemed to be someone who could fulfil her boast.

🪘The point here is this: It is true that everyone has sexual organs, but not everyone has taken the time to become skilful in using what they have to obtain the best results on the marriage bed.

🪗This lady had mastery, knack, and technique in sex that could sweep men off their feet, leaving them happily overwhelmed and wanting to “remain captive” to her!

🥁And do you know what? There are literally thousands of such people, both male and female, on the loose. Don’t let them snatch your spouse!

🎙️Since sexual intimacy is an essential part of matrimony, it is important that you strive for excellence in this area for the good of both you and your spouse. That is one of the ways to gently close your partner’s mind to the idea of seeking satisfaction elsewhere. 🪗🥁

💕♥️Tonight’s Bedroom Assignment: Re-read this devotional together just before bedtime and discuss it with open and sincere hearts.

✝️Altar Call: Jesus Christ is calling you! Come to Him today in genuine repentance. Believe in Him and be saved!

🧪⚗️Scientific Info To Boost Your Marriage:
🔬”White meat, particularly turkey breast, is exceptionally high in L-arginine. This amino acid converts into nitric oxide in the body, causing blood vessels to dilate and expand. This process directly improves vascular response and blood flow, which is crucial for maintaining strong erections and sexual arousal in both men and women.”🔬

📢HALLELUJAH!
🎷PRAISE THE LORD!
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