LOVEBIRDS' DEVOTIONAL

Enriching Matrimonies

PATIENT AND UNHURRIED LOVE: THE KEYS TO LEARNING AND MASTERING MARRIAGE AND LOVEMAKING.

Scripture:
‘FOR THOU HAST HAD FIVE HUSBANDS; AND HE WHOM THOU NOW HAST IS NOT THY HUSBAND: IN THAT SAIDST THOU TRULY.’
(John 4:18)

MARRIAGE BRINGS YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE INTO YOUR long awaited SEASON OF LOVE when you’re FULLY FREE to practice romantic and sexual Love.

Our concern today is to dwell on the fact that long lasting marriages and superlative bedroom lives don’t just happen. They fundamentally require investing Patience, which is the first quality of Love(1 Corinthians 13:4). In some versions of the Bible, Patience is translated as LONG-SUFFERING. Long-suffering is the capacity to endure for a very long time without complaining. You need this quality to succeed in Marriage and to grow into a great lover and romantic.

Every Marriage has the potential to grow, flourish and transform. Nevertheless, the Spouses must be patient and unhurried. Your husband may not be romantic right now but Patience says: “Stick to him because he’ll transform into a super romantic in the future”.

The undoing of many divorced persons have been haste, impatience and rush. These three negative elements deceive those who harbour them to throw away good and promising marriages because of hasty and regrettable conclusions.

No two marriages are the same just as no two couples are the same. If your neighbour’s marriage is thriving and yours isn’t so at the moment, don’t conclude that you married the wrong person.

A few days ago, I stopped at a stall to buy Beans. Pointing to a particular specy of Beans, the trader told me, “This is the real big beans. As you set it on the gas cooker, it will get done in no time.” That’s THAT variety of Beans. Other varieties take longer on fire but they’re also very good. Each specy has its distinct taste and special nutritional values. And that’s how Marriages and Spouses are.

Even in the Marriage bedroom, you need to understand that you have to be patient and unhurried to get the best out of it.

Don’t import the “hurry up; let’s do it quickly and be out” approach of Fornicators into Marriage. It will dilute and ruin the rich taste of your matrimonial Wine. Fornicators hurry for many reasons that range from the fear of being caught to the fact that they know that what they’re doing isn’t theirs. It’s stolen waters, it’s bread eaten in secret(Proverbs 9:17-18). It must therefore be eaten in a hurry.

Marriage is completely different. Your Spouse is all yours and you have no need to hurry. If your husband’s “instrument” SEEMS not to be fast in starting off the day’s operations, Madam, don’t start fuming and getting upset. Be relaxed. Patiently continue love play and you’ll be surprised at how effortlessly the body’s divine wiring will take care of itself.

And, Sir, if your wife seems too passive and inactive during lovemaking don’t get offended and call her names. No, No, No! Remember that Love is patient and Lovemaking requires patience with each other; and unhurriedly, giving attention to details to get the best of out of it. With patience, your wife will transform and might even become more active than you.

Every man is unique and so is every woman. But everyone has the capacity to grow into an amazing superlative Lover.

Patiently and unhurriedly LEARN EACH OTHER; and that requires time, humility and a teachable heart. It requires flexing and adapting.

Changing Spouses like the woman in our anchor scripture isn’t the key to enjoying long lasting love and romance. It’s REMAINING in a monogamous Marriage in which you invest many years of patience in learning and mastering the art of Loving and Lovemaking.

🔥🔥🔥 FAITH DECREE:
🔥 BE FILLED WITH A FRESH SUPPLY OF INVIGORATING PATIENCE!

🍷🍗 TAKE-HOME LESSON: MAKE PATIENCE YOUR MOTTO IN MARRIAGE AND BEDROOM LIFE; AND YOU’LL ACHIEVE GRAND SUCCESS IN YOUR LIFE AS MARRIED LOVERS!

💕❤ TONIGHT’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
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