DO YOU KNOW THAT AFTER THE THIRD DAY OF CREATION, God has never created any other grass, plants, herbs or trees?(Genesis 1:11-13). We cook the same old beans, rice, yams, etc. that He created long ago but don’t get tired of eating them because we cook them in different ways and turn them into varieties of dishes. For instance, we use corn for Akamu, Cornflakes, Ekwo, Ijobu, Oje-Akpa, etc. We also use beans for Akara, Moimoi, etc, and so we’re never bored eating corn or beans because of the variety of ways we consume them.
In a monogamous marriage, where you are the only Love-Food of your Spouse, there’s the need for you be creative and imaginative with yourself, so that your Spouse never becomes tired or bored with you. Yes, there’s the need for you to
present “varieties” of yourself to your partner from time to time.
Long ago, a husband found himself staring at women each time he went to town, even though he was fully married.
As this tendency continued, he realized that the women who attracted his gaze usually wore a particular kind of gown. Then a thought sneaked into his mind: “Why not buy that kind of gown for your wife also?” He obeyed the thought and bought one of such gowns for his woman.
When he got home, he called her into the bedroom and handed her the dress 👗 👗👗👗👗👗👗 concealed in a nylon bag. She received it and wore it while he watched. He then told her to walk around in the room. As she walked, her husband found himself exclaiming: “ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME, THEY ONLY NEED MAINTAINANCE!”
Isn’t this revealing? As a wife, there’s nothing in other women out there that you don’t have. The same is true of men. With you in your Spouse’s life, they have no business staring or gazing at other men or women; let alone going into extramarital affairs with them.
God has built into you the capacity to transform into hundreds of versions of yourself. You can easily confirm this from how Actors play different roles in movies and how their bodily packaging, costumes and actions help in effecting the transformation.
I don’t know of you, but I have seen people looking so different sometimes that it took me a while to recognize them: all because they gave themselves the touch of polishing, grooming and dressing up elegantly. One such instance was over twenty years ago, when I saw a lady who’d lost her husband about two years previously. She looked so gorgeous I was simply stunned and quietly wondered: “You mean this woman was this beautiful all along and she hid it while her husband was alive?”
Many Spouses, dropped their sense of recreating themselves once they said,”I Do”. This isn’t wisdom. It’s in marriage that the self-recreation skills should be used the most.
Your question may now be, “How Do Creatively Change Myself?” Here’s how, in brief:
(1) CREATE AN IMPROVED VERSION OF YOU IN CHARACTER
Someone said that the biggest room in the world is the room for IMPROVEMENT. You can’t remain the same angry, irritable, noisy and shouty person forever! Improve yourself!! Why are we reading the Bible and following God, if not that our character and behaviour should move from ordinary to GODLY, PIOUS AND HOLY?
Beloved, nobody’s going to force you to improve: it’s up to you. So, drop those traits that make you bitter and sour to live with. The woman in our anchor scripture found her man’s kisses untiringly sweet she wanted more and more of it. His character must have been also sweet no doubt. So, change your conduct, behaviour and attitude. Don’t just be a “Sweetheart” or “Honey-Honey” by love-name but in reality and in the way you live and relate with your Spouse and they’ll want more of you!
(2) INVEST IN LOVE-WEARS
It’s said that “Apparel Maketh Man” and it’s true. As the only God-appointed Romantic and Sexual Lover to your Spouse, it’s important that you invest in love-wears. For housewives, this includes: night gowns, colourful G-string Panties, gorgeous and revealing tops that you could wear just for the eyes of your inside the bedroom, etc. For men: colourful pyjamas, randy sports wears, attractive boxers, etc.
Of course, you must both be disciplined and mature in your use of them. Madam must NEVER stroll to the sitting room where the children are gathered wearing her transparent nightgowns with nothing under or over. It’s costly carelessness. Neither should Daddy walk around the house in his extra-short boxer briefs. No!!!
(3) TRANSFORM YOURSELF AS A LOVER.
Improve your NAKED APPEARANCE. Give your body touches here and there that will make your romantic outlook so explosive, so stunning and so disarming your Mate would find you so sexually “eatable” they can’t wait to go to bed with you.
Wife, don’t keep your hair tied up the entire day. The Bible doesn’t demand that of you.
A change in the dressing of your hair from time to time will change your looks drawing the happy gaze of your Mate. This especially true of women. Husbands should also regularly get good haircuts that will excite Madam amorously.
From time to time, get hold of a shaving stick and give your private region a creative and imaginative “regional beautification touch”!
In conclusion, note that you don’t need to use complexion altering creams to change your colour. It’s not necessary. Be natural!!! However, tackling and eliminating skin troubles like eczema, rashes, etc, is important. Eczema defaces romantic looks, so deal with it.
🔥🔥🔥FAITH DECREE:
🔥 LET EVERY SPOUSE READING THIS DEVOTIONAL PIECE RECEIVE WITH EASE THE UNDERSTANDING AND WISDOM EMBEDDED IN IT !!!!!⚡ ⚡⚡
🍷🍗 TAKE-HOME LESSON: MAKE YOURSELF A NEW LOVER TO YOUR SPOUSE EVERY NEW DAY! IT ONLY TAKES EFFORTS.
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