ON THE DAY YOU GOT MARRIED, you and your Spouse became divinely licenced Lovers. You were fully authorized by God to practice all the various forms of Love: agape, phileo and eros.
Once married therefore, the next thing was to throw yourselves fully into having a continual and blazing love affair with each other.
But because of lack of knowledge (Hosea 4: 6) what most couples did after saying “I Do” and observing a brief Honeymoon, was to turn the lights of romantic love and sexual intimacy low! This has been one major reason why romance and the sweet feelings of being in love gradually declined and finally disappeared in many marriages.
Sorry to say that in most marriages, this began with wives abandoning their loverhood for motherhood! This is a grave and costly error that has drowned many marriages as the romantically “abandoned” husbands now began getting attracted to other females when his eyes were supposed to be filled with his wife.
Dear Spouses, parenthood and parenting are very important. However, don’t forget that it’s loverhood that begets parenthood. So, don’t prioritize the children above your relationship.
The children need your mutual parental care and nurturing, but so also does your relationship as married Lovers need investing into; so as to be kept alive, strong and thrilling.
The negligence of spouses in giving diligent attention to remaining close, intimate and in a strong love affair with each other has been the underlying cause of infidelity and extramarital affairs.
Spouses, this devotional piece is a call to return to your status as covenant Lovers. If you fervently practice covenant loverhood like the couple in the Song of Solomon, you’ll be hungry for each other all the time like them.
Just as you’re mindful of taking care of the children, so also be mindful of giving “love attention” to your Mate. The children call your attention with their voice or cries. Your Spouse won’t cry for your “love attention”. They could tell you but some don’t. So you have to reach out to them and serve them your affection, passion and deluxe sex.
The tradition that says, “It’s the husband who should go the wife first” is nothing but what it is: a mere tradition of men!
The strange women out there are not waiting for men to come to them. No. They wash and polish themselves and dress up and hit the streets to HUNT FOR MEN (Proverbs 6: 26b).
Madam, wake up and polish yourself and hunt your husband before they hunt him down. If you “love-hunt” him at home, he’ll be too fed and satiated to want to step out.
Let your consciousness of being lovers be so strong and so high it reflects in your dressing and in flirting with each other when at home. Be powerfully magnetic to your Spouse and let their eyes and the screen of their minds be filled with images of you all the time!
💕❤️Tonight’s Assignment In The Bedroom:
Reread today’s devotional piece together just before bedtime. Don’t discuss it. Act on it!
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