DEAR SPOUSES, IT’S VERY IMPORTANT for you to understand that you do not own your love life gifts.

Your question at this point may be: “What constitutes my love life gifts?”

Your love life gifts consists of your sexuality, passion, sex drive, beauty, handsomeness and indeed all the romantic and sexual qualities in you that are desirable and attractive to your Spouse as a person of the opposite gender.

Now, all these gifts are in you but do not belong to you. They belong to God but are entrusted to you to make available to your Spouse, whenever they need them. They are the rightful beneficiary and you are to inturn enjoy the love life gifts placed in their life for your romantic nourishment and enrichment.

Spouses are like fruit trees. No tree eats it’s own fruits. As abundant as the fruits may be on a tree in any fruiting season, the tree doesn’t eat even one fruit. They are for the enjoyment of the person who takes care of it.

Similarly, no wife was created to fondle and suck her own breasts and nipples. If she does, it’s called Masturbation and it’s a Sin. Her breasts are for her husband to lovingly fondle, caress, kiss and suck; and as he does, both of them enjoy the act. This is God’s perfect will in Marriage.

And a husband was not designed to fondle his manhood and be excited. If he does, it’s like a tree eating it’s own fruits and it’s strange, unnatural and abominable! If a man does that, it’s called Masturbation and it’s a Sin. It’s the wife’s duty to touch her husband’s manhood and when she does, they both enjoy the act. Again, this is God’s perfect will in Marriage.

The Scripture makes it clear that in Marriage, Spouses have ownership of each other’s body(1 Corinthians 7:4)

Unfortunately, many Spouses are ignorant of this scripture and so behave as if they have the sole authority over their body.

Sir/Ma, your body now belongs to your spouse and they have full rights of access to it.

Now, let’s look at our anchor scriptures. The first verse commands you not to WITHHOLD a blessing from those for whom it’s meant.

As we have already seen, your love life gifts don’t belong to you but to God Who gave them to you to give to your husband or wife. Our anchor scripture is saying: do not keep back the gifts when your Mate comes asking for them.

The second verse of our anchor scriptures says you shouldn’t tell your Spouse to wait till the next day before you can grant them access to the love life gifts God has kept with you to give to them. Just think about it. Is it good? It isn’t! Yet some Church folks, Pastors, Pastor’s wives, Bishops, Deacons, Deaconesses and other titled church people are doing this steadily and their sexually frustrated spouse is weeping buckets of secret tears.

Sir/Ma, if you’re a sexual tormentor in your marriage please, repent!!!!

Our righteousness and holiness must also be in the bedroom and should stand tall therein. Jesus warned:

“For I say unto you, That except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the Scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven.”(Matthew 5:20)

The Pharisees were the masters of outward righteousness as they wore long ecclesiastical robes; and prayed and gave alms in public to be seen and praised by men. But in the heart, they stank like the insides of a sepulchre!

Sir/Ma, ensure that your righteousness isn’t like the Pharisees’.

Fear God indeed and ensure that you don’t deprive, defraud or oppress your Spouse sexually in the bedroom while dramatizing holiness outside the home.
God is keenly watching and “shall bring every work into judgement, with every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil.”(Ecclesiastes 12:14)

❤️💕 TONIGHT’S ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
Reread the devotional piece just before bedtime and soberly discuss it.

✝️ JESUS CHRIST IS CALLING YOU! COME TO HIM TODAY AND BE SAVED!!!

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