JUST IMAGINE THE EARTH BEING A PLANET OF NO SOUNDS with everyone and everything moving noiselessly. It would be such a mournful and eerie world. But God in His wisdom made sounds part of our world and it’s just so beautiful.
As our anchor scripture for today tells us, there are many kinds of sounds in our world and none is meaningless. This means that the barking of the dog, the sounds of the rushing waterfalls, the rumbling of thunderstorms, etc, are all meaningful.
Similarly, the sounds of spouses’ sweet copulation activities are part of the many meaningful and beautiful “voices” in God’s lovely world. They’re designed by Him and have been features of marriages right from the Beginning and through thousands of generations until ours. These sounds include moans. They’re what the man in the Song of Solomon referred to when he said:
“AND THE ROOF OF THY MOUTH LIKE THE BEST WINE FOR MY BELOVED, THAT GOETH DOWN SWEETLY, CAUSING THE LIPS OF THOSE THAT ARE ASLEEP TO SPEAK.”(Song of Solomon 7:9)
Who are the sleepers whose lips are speaking? Spouses! What lips is he talking about? The eight lips.
Someone has said that christian wives should not moan. That person might as well tell these precious daughters of God not to laugh, sneeze or even cry. Doesn’t he know that moaning is instinctual and a natural part of human sexuality; even though it may be more pronounced in some than in others?
Recently, I heard that a new wife was taken by her husband for deliverance because she moaned during intimacy. The ignorant man felt she was possessed by a demon and wanted the “unclean spirit” making her moan to be cast out! Well, the young wife wasn’t possessed as he supposed. If he felt embarrassed by the loudness of her moans, all he needed to do was to lovingly read with her our teaching on
Sound Management in Lovelife’s Moments of Ecstasy(SMILE), one of our courses here at Maximum Marriage Ministries.
Today, we’ll teach that Course on Lovebirds’ Devotional.
(1) ELEMENTARY KNOWLEDGE OF BODILY LOVE SOUNDS
The first thing to know is that moaning is instinctual and a natural part of human sexuality. It’s built into our gender make up by God and seems to be higher in women than men.
It’s the body’s response to the waves of sexual pleasure that course through it as the spouses blend as male and female and their “chemistries” touch and spark “fires” of lovejoy. It’s got nothing to do with the devil. It’s got everything to do with GOD.
2) THE MOANING INSTINCTS ARE CONTROLLABLE
The manufacturers of your phone were wise enough to fix control buttons so you could tune it’s sound volume to high or low or place it on loudspeaker.
God Almighty Who created the phone makers is a far higher Genius. He designed all our human sound systems such that none is uncontrollable. Your laughter, crying, singing voice, screaming, rejoicing, etc are all CONTROLLABLE BY YOU. So also are your lovemaking sounds. You must as a couple use your sex-sound control-powers so you don’t become a pair of
disgraceful spouses who grunt like pigs and moo like cows at midnight; disrupting the night sleep of your innocent children, your neighbours and their families.
Marriage is honourable and so also is it’s intimacy. You can both express all your excitements in subdued hushes and whispers and still experience overflowing fulfillment. The Bible says that the spirit of the prophet is subject to the prophet(1 Corinthians 14:32). So also are the feelings and excitements of married couples subject to their minds and sanity. Don’t be like the couple who lost their integrity in the neighbourhood where they lived because of indiscipline in lovelife’s moments of ecstasy. It’s a shame!
3) LOVEMAKING ISN’T A WRESTLING MATCH OR ACROBATICS
Listen attentively, dear Spouses. Marital intimacy isn’t a hooligan act. Neither is it showmanship. It’s a sober, dignified and sublime covenant-love activity and that’s why it’s introduced in the Bible with these words: “And Adam knew Eve his wife”(Genesis 4:1a). There’s nothing rough or wild about being with someone you love and knowing them intimately. Lovemaking never calls for unruly conduct, hoolabaloo or eccentricity. The Bible says of LOVE, “Doth not behave itself unseemly”(1 Corinthians 13:5a). Don’t emulate whoremongers, prostitutes and fornicators who call intimacy “knacking” or “hammering”. Because of these evil mental concepts of sex that they carry, their approach to sex is rough and wild. Such wild approach create loud bodily noises of pounding, etc. As a responsible couple, train yourselves to operate like stealth bombers that do so much without making noise.
Adherence to the three points discussed above will help you have fulfilling marital intimacy without anyone outside getting any hints. This is what it should be because Marriage is honourable.
💕❤️TONIGHT’S ONE FLESH ASSIGNMENT IN THE BEDROOM
Reread today’s devotional piece together and discuss it.
JESUS IS LORD FOREVER!
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