IF YOU’RE LIKE MOST, THEN YOU DIDN’T FALL IN LOVE with your Spouse and marry them just because they were merely male or female. Certain distinct and definite qualities in them fascinated and drew you towards them. You saw hundreds of men/women but your heart stuck to the man or woman that’s now your partner and today you’re husband and wife.
One of the secrets of having and enjoying an ever strong and ever thrilling love relationship in marriage is to retain your fascination with each other. It’s a crucial element that keeps marital relationships in the “first love” form.
A look at our anchor scripture passage shows you a man that’s utterly fascinated and enthralled with his Spouse. Everything about her made him drunk with love for: her eyes, hair, lips, teeth, neck…..!
Remember your own courtship days? You’d recall how you intensely loved each other. Your fascination with each other was very high. It was a catalyst that kept your relationship strong and untiring. I’ve personally shared both Online and in Marriage Seminars how during my courtship days I wrote letters to my fiancee more than a couple of times on my knees. I was so lovestruck and lovedrunk! I was so fascinated with her so much so that I’d look at her pictures almost every day. Even though I saw girls and women in Church, on the streets, in the market and everywhere else, she was the most beautiful lady as far as I was concerned. I even composed songs for her. Effortlessly! As I’m writing, I can also remember another Preacher who shared with me the beautifully worded poem he wrote for his fiancee. This is what it means to be fascinated with the one you love and this quality must increase after you’ve become husband and wife!!!
Fascination makes you see the best of your Spouse and not their worst. It focuses your gaze on your Mate and makes you esteem them as most unique, most special and exceptional. These conclusions and conviction fuel admiration, praise and adoration.
You must never lose your fascination with your Spouse. It’s magical, powerful and reinvigorates passion, desire, respect, etc. Retention of your spousal fascination makes you a steady and unwavering romantic devotee of your Spouse.
In marriage, there must never be a cessation of romantic fascination. Husbands are to be endlessly delighted in their wives and resultantly loving them supremely and affectionately as Christ does the church(Ephesians 5:25). And wives are to also retain their fascination with their husbands and love them ardently, setting them on a special pedestal: high and above every other man.
At the point where you chose to marry your present Partner, there’s no doubt that you were fascinated with them. And if you were, then your judgement and decision was definitely right and it becomes your duty to defend it staunchly whenever the devil, the world or the flesh presents another man or woman to you and tells you that they’re better than your spouse and that you should commit Adultery with them. If you consent, you’re not only sinning and damning your own soul but declaring yourself a stupid, senseless and idiotic fool who could be so easily swayed to forsake the convictions that birthed your Marriage.
Seeing someone else that’s who’s richer, more endowed or more gifted after you’ve already married is normal. Every one encounters them after getting married. But GOD forbids you changing your mind about your Spouse.
In closing it’s important to say this: Spouses, if you don’t know exactly what qualities in you attracted, entranced, charmed and enthralled your husband or wife into the decision to marry you, please find out from them today or soon. And when they tell you, give attention to renewing that aspect of your personality for their pleasure.
And if time, age and the circumstances of life have eroded the features of your Mate you once loved and cherished, there’s nothing to worry about. Let your fond memories of them make up for them.
Whether your Mate is waxed weak and feeble or not, you mustn’t allow your love for them wane or diminish. Be continually and endlessly fascinated with each other. That’s how to walk in unfailing and undying matrimonial love.
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🔥LET THE GRACE TO PRACTICE THE TEACHING OF TODAY’S DEVOTIONAL PIECE BE GRANTED EVERY MARRIED READER!!!⚡⚡⚡
🍷🍗 TAKE-HOME LESSON: NEVER ALLOW YOUR HEART BECOME DULL AND BORED WITH YOUR PRECIOUS SPOUSE! BE EVER HIGHLY FASCINATED WITH THEM AND CONTINUALLY BE IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER.
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